True Love is one best thing that can ever happen to someone and it's the sweetest thing ever.But when it's not really it is a nightmare.for me i somuch believe in love and i don't joke with love and i will love to fall in love someday to someone special.i will say love is very kind,fair and great no matter what it is the best.

I think that love, like life, is what you make of it.

thats great,i totally agree with you

Love is not wicked, nor fair or unfair, nor kind or unkind....

people are.


Love is a stream of energy, an undercurrent through everything....most are not even aware of love...they believe the grappling, sweaty, heart fluttery dazzle is love...and it isn't.

Love is nothing more than energy...people attach everything else to it.

All of the above.........and option D too!

agreed^^^^

I think a conceptual construct can't have feelings, much less attitudes. Love can't be snutty, snarky or brute.

On the other hand, a very large chunk of the human population on this globe suffer from one or another kind of horrible emotional diseases, and our displays, ability, and appearance of love given and received are totally not what one would expect from a "loving" or "loved" person or lover. To name a few of these diseases, there is passive aggression in ALL people with personality diseases, there is controlling behaviour in sadistic personality disorder, there is obsessive compulsion, there is this and that and the other thing.

What I am trying to say is that a person with BPD will torment his or her lover for no reason, and the cause for his or her tormentuous behaviour is not a wish or desire to do so, much less a wish or desire to hurt the very person he or she loves, but his or her disease superceeds his or her will and best judgement and compels him or her to act hurtfully. Such is the nature of emotional ills.

So basically, OP, if you want to find true love, you must add "emotionally healthy and unencumbered" to your list of desirables in your date, who would be a good candidate to date, a sweet one.

The Almighty was the first one to attach things to it... penises, breasts, and such-like.