Topic: The Right Partner
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Fri 11/09/12 04:56 PM
It is actually God's will that we find ourselves with the right partner. And l know that God is still in the business of working out for the best for His children when it comes to marriage. One time l told a friend pastor about my intention to start a relationship, and he said, '' how many books have you read on relationship, and on what basis do you intend to start a relationship''? Those where hard questions for me. He advised me to read about 7 or more books on relationships and godly dating before l ever take a step. Somehow, l have come to realise that the issue about the right time is rather about how prepared we are. Relationship is for people who are matured. Most of the time we go in search of the right partner, but you know the truth is that we need not take the trouble to search for a Good or Perfect partner when we invest time in making ourselves potential partners. WHEN WE INVEST IN OUR LIVES TO BE GOOD PARTNERS WE AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACT THE RIGHT PERSON. So as you keep on waiting for the special one, pray the more, read the more and search for qualities and virtues and l know that these coupled with the leadings of the HOLY SPIRIT will lead you to that special person.

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Sat 11/10/12 07:35 PM
Could not agree more with what you say ,although it is very lonely at times ....

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Wed 12/04/13 05:37 AM
You are right dear
...but u arent going through loneliness because God is there for you. u r just feeling alone.

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Wed 12/04/13 06:52 AM
Welcome back freepiety!flowerforyou

Awesome testimony!

Very good advice!

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Thu 12/05/13 12:58 PM
I couldn't agree more.

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Thu 12/05/13 03:02 PM

I couldn't agree more.


Welcome to mingle2 Christian Singles, jonathinglesthewaving

Blessings to ya!

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Tue 12/10/13 07:27 AM
Thank you very much dear..... I prayer to have a better time this time than before. flowerforyou to

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Fri 12/13/13 10:10 AM

It is actually God's will that we find ourselves with the right partner. And l know that God is still in the business of working out for the best for His children when it comes to marriage. One time l told a friend pastor about my intention to start a relationship, and he said, '' how many books have you read on relationship, and on what basis do you intend to start a relationship''? Those where hard questions for me. He advised me to read about 7 or more books on relationships and godly dating before l ever take a step. Somehow, l have come to realise that the issue about the right time is rather about how prepared we are. Relationship is for people who are matured. Most of the time we go in search of the right partner, but you know the truth is that we need not take the trouble to search for a Good or Perfect partner when we invest time in making ourselves potential partners. WHEN WE INVEST IN OUR LIVES TO BE GOOD PARTNERS WE AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACT THE RIGHT PERSON. So as you keep on waiting for the special one, pray the more, read the more and search for qualities and virtues and l know that these coupled with the leadings of the HOLY SPIRIT will lead you to that special person.


waving

Good word...any books you recommend?

Your post reminds me of a quote I once read; not sure who wrote it:

"There is no such thing as an overnight success. For those who are successful, it is because of their diligence to refine themselves and their gifts. They are always prepared for the moment when opportunity knocks. Oh yes, opportunity will indeed knock. But if it doesn't find a prepared vessel, it moves on in search of someone who is ready to welcome success, love, or whatever the heart desires."

flowerforyou