Topic: Rate my Profile
StellarKiss's photo
Wed 06/26/13 06:58 AM
In your opinion, what are the strengths and/or weaknesses of my profile? Thanks in advance~ flowerforyou

boyfmaterial's photo
Wed 06/26/13 07:57 AM
..why u so fixated on mental health? Seems like paranoia on your part, which is a form of mental illness itself. ..just calm down pal..

StellarKiss's photo
Wed 06/26/13 08:19 PM
Edited by StellarKiss on Wed 06/26/13 08:24 PM

..why u so fixated on mental health? Seems like paranoia on your part, which is a form of mental illness itself. ..just calm down pal..


I am very calm, actually. Thank you though for the feedback. As far as fixation on mental health(?) In my culture and country mental-health related problems is a serious issue and problem for the majority of the populous here, as many scientific, psychological, and even sociological tests and analysis has proven. I do not consider myself to be fixated on it per-se. I do however feel that it needs addressed in an efficient and forthright manner. So due to the psychological state of the majority, I felt it best to address this personally for whichever woman might be interested in learning about what I feel and think regarding her and I, and this subject. (e.g. Statistically, the consumption of antidepressants and other-mental health related issues is much higher for women than men.) I do value your input/feedback on how what I wrote may sound. Noted. Thank you kindly~

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Wed 06/26/13 08:22 PM
Hello... I understand wanting to meet someone that is honest and who doesn't play games, but your profile seems very angry and bitter. Maybe you could look at saying it in a more positive way.

Best of luck to you

StellarKiss's photo
Wed 06/26/13 08:28 PM

Hello... I understand wanting to meet someone that is honest and who doesn't play games, but your profile seems very angry and bitter. Maybe you could look at saying it in a more positive way.

Best of luck to you


Thank you for the response and feedback. I do not feel angry or bitter though. Since you think/feel it is not as positive as it can be, how would you word it differently whilst covering all the points I raised(? Or would you save all those points for disclosure further into the relationship(?)

leapoffaith1972's photo
Thu 06/27/13 02:17 PM


Hello... I understand wanting to meet someone that is honest and who doesn't play games, but your profile seems very angry and bitter. Maybe you could look at saying it in a more positive way.

Best of luck to you


Thank you for the response and feedback. I do not feel angry or bitter though. Since you think/feel it is not as positive as it can be, how would you word it differently whilst covering all the points I raised(? Or would you save all those points for disclosure further into the relationship(?)


I would suggest shorting it and maybe saying something more like "I am a very honest and open person and value honesty in a partner as well" I would replace a lot of the negative/judgmental with more positive qualities about yourself as well as the ones that you are looking for in a partner instead of pointing out everything that you are not. I would remove that part about "if you meet my high standards" with I have high standards for myself as well as my partner. Your profile reads that if I go out on a date with you, I am going to be judged by every move I make. Hope this is helpful

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Tue 07/02/13 01:21 PM
Oh my gosh Kiss, I was quite shocked to read your profile. A few things stand out for me. One important thing is that women on average, really tend to disapprove of the word tramp.
I feel that I have a very good sense of who I am and I honor and respect myself in a good healthy way. I see your profile as being full of anger and demands, which really doesn't leave much opportunity for women to just enjoy being themselves. Your profile tells me it's all about you, and if she disappoints you then she's a tramp, mentally ill, unintelligent and out on her ear. I don't see respect for women here at all.
I'm sorry if that insults, I'm sure it's a bit harsh, but it's honest. Maybe it's you who is not ready for a relationship? I hope this can help in some way.
I wish you well.
Mel

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Wed 07/03/13 06:08 AM
Ok, I'm new on this site, soooooo check me out and rate my profile :-)

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Mon 07/08/13 07:18 PM
Your profile is not a profile at all.

It's a speech. The kind you make when your beating the **** out of your woman or you have her tied up in the basement.

For example: What we do....we do together....or we are not we.

For God's sake man, get some help before it's too late.