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Pre-marital After-marital It's all Good
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sex is good
 
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Pre-marital After-marital It's all Good Probably why when confronted by the significant other the reply goes something like this ... "it was just sex; it just happened; you know I only love you." I would rather loosen the leash and hear the truth from my partner that "he & Bill got it on last weekend" than to hear Alex tell me he heard from Bill that my partner got some from him." Don't lay in bed with me and in the heat of it all tell me "oh Bill that was HOT!"
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Pre-marital After-marital It's all Good Probably why when confronted by the significant other the reply goes something like this ... "it was just sex; it just happened; you know I only love you." I would rather loosen the leash and hear the truth from my partner that "he & Bill got it on last weekend" than to hear Alex tell me he heard from Bill that my partner got some from him." Don't lay in bed with me and in the heat of it all tell me "oh Bill that was HOT!" ^^^HAHAHAHAHAHA THAT was FUNNY ! 
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i think its right if u nd ur partner both r in a true relation from heart nd soul and wrong in case the reation is just for time pass
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You never buy a car without a test drive Do you live in a house before buying it? |
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 and don't forget to inspect the plumbing ... don't want any surprises |
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Right
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i am agreed with your point of view
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: What about sex outside of marriage when there is some other factor. I struggle with it because my wife of thirty years had a stroke five years ago and is now disabled (more than just physically). She no longer knows me other than as her care giver. Wow.. what happened to your wedding vows? My wedding vows are intact. That is why I am asking. Is there a time when one partner is no longer able or capable ... Or is the healthy partner to remain celibate for the duration even if it is years. Dude, it's inappropriate for a widow to re-marry immediately after, much less a husband to consider sex outside the marriage while their souse is still kickin! That's technically cheating if you go through with it. If your vows are still intact, freakin honor them. I second that!  I don't know. If she now only knows you as her carer and doesn't think of you as her husband it's hard to see how it could possibly bother her. What do you think she would want you to do? I mean, when she was still the woman you married, if you had a conversation about whether it would be alright if this happened to her, what do you think she would have said? Would she have wanted you to be happy and would it make you happy to be with another woman? A sexless marriage is kind of a marriage in name only. I agree with you " A sexless marriage is kind of a marriage in name only" I have gone through this |
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i believe there is nothing wrong in having sex ,because if you dont you will be sexually frustrated and you will not be happy nor you can keep you wife happy so just dont let anyone know about this at least your wife I agree with you. |
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Edited by
N2000
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Sun 07/28/13 07:47 AM
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: What about sex outside of marriage when there is some other factor. I struggle with it because my wife of thirty years had a stroke five years ago and is now disabled (more than just physically). She no longer knows me other than as her care giver. Wow.. what happened to your wedding vows? My wedding vows are intact. That is why I am asking. Is there a time when one partner is no longer able or capable ... Or is the healthy partner to remain celibate for the duration even if it is years. Dude, it's inappropriate for a widow to re-marry immediately after, much less a husband to consider sex outside the marriage while their souse is still kickin! That's technically cheating if you go through with it. If your vows are still intact, freakin honor them. I second that! I don't know. If she now only knows you as her carer and doesn't think of you as her husband it's hard to see how it could possibly bother her. What do you think she would want you to do? I mean, when she was still the woman you married, if you had a conversation about whether it would be alright if this happened to her, what do you think she would have said? Would she have wanted you to be happy and would it make you happy to be with another woman? A sexless marriage is kind of a marriage in name only. {{{ I agree with twatstrat }} until you've walked a mile in one's shoes! my friends dad had a head injury when he was a teen, and was on strong medication for many years, leaving him impotent at an early age with no sexual desires. his mother was very acractive and admitted not have a sex life for 10 years and eventually took on a boyfriend that did move inn, in the end. As her husband's health deteriorated rapidly in his late 40s. she honored " til Death shall we part", after years of frustuation and unfulfillment, she looked after herself. she's entitled to a full life as well! her husbands passed, but she has been with the boyfriend for almost 20 years. were only human and we're subject to change! people change, the times change, situations change {{{♥ his name's odd Rod ~ not dead rod ♥ }}} no pun intented to the story~ or was there  I completely agree with you.I had gone with this situation with my husband. he refused me. Now I am out of my country, having a relationship with a married man life like "odd Rod. First we born as a human being. After that we get our name, nationality,religion, all of those things human create or made for human keep in control. When we born we don't know anything. But we born with feelings, desire things in our body. When we born we don't know what is our nationality,religion,language,gods ect ect. After we born we get all these. People change religion which they follow since born. I do not know why. But why a married person cannot change for her or his desire.Only if he or she don't get it from each other.If they good with each other then they should live forever together. We don't live forever. In odd Rod situation, He should go out, but he should take care of his wife because of her physical situation.There is something that said" Who has the wound,Only that person know the pain". I don't know how to write proper way,If someone know please correct. |
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For me i will say is not good to have sex out side marriage just think wen your find out dat ur wife or ur husband is chating on ur hw u feel just remember d vow u both took for better or worst that u both will stick 2gether so no need of seekn alternative wen problem cmes up u av to endure till death do u apart as u vowed
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For me i will say is not good to have sex out side marriage just think wen your find out dat ur wife or ur husband is chating on ur hw u feel just remember d vow u both took for better or worst that u both will stick 2gether so no need of seekn alternative wen problem cmes up u av to endure till death do u apart as u vowed We don't born with vows my friend. What will happened the other party not corporate with the other. Who wants to live like a dead body. Unless they have mental problems. |
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i believe there is nothing wrong in having sex ,because if you dont you will be sexually frustrated and you will not be happy nor you can keep you wife happy so just dont let anyone know about this at least your wife I agree with you. bollocks....it is still cheating - you need to end the marriage, if you haven't the balls to do that maybe THAT is why the marraige is sexless...  just a thought you are looking for a justification for dishonoring a marriage vow and their is none - end it - or don;t do it but whatever you do quit making stupid excuses for cheating on your spouse...it is what it is - cheating and infidelity. Most women will wake up to realize that you will do the exact same thing to them with this moral slime.....if - that is - you are being honest with your sex partners you cheat with. It is still cheating. no matter how you slice it and dice it.....it's still an onion. 
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For me i will say is not good to have sex out side marriage just think wen your find out dat ur wife or ur husband is chating on ur hw u feel just remember d vow u both took for better or worst that u both will stick 2gether so no need of seekn alternative wen problem cmes up u av to endure till death do u apart as u vowed We don't born with vows my friend. What will happened the other party not corporate with the other. Who wants to live like a dead body. Unless they have mental problems. I would think mental problems might stop one from ending one relationship before starting another.....things like honorable behavior, clear thinking yanno stuff like that |
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For me i will say is not good to have sex out side marriage just think wen your find out dat ur wife or ur husband is chating on ur hw u feel just remember d vow u both took for better or worst that u both will stick 2gether so no need of seekn alternative wen problem cmes up u av to endure till death do u apart as u vowed We don't born with vows my friend. What will happened the other party not corporate with the other. Who wants to live like a dead body. Unless they have mental problems. . Who made these vows,rules, People made to keep people in control. I am from very culture and religion family,married have kids. I lived according to my culture and religion and being good daughter to my family.I lived alone past 14 years, with one year relationship. I sacrificed 13 years no sex or any relationship.What I got following all those values. Nothing except sad, lonely,lived like a dead person. This is so unfair live in a sexless marriage to keep those vows, rules made by human |
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sstupid excuses
are u just hre trolling that is how it seems |
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The bottom line is...premarital sex is a personal choice between two people. Now is it morally wrong? Yes but I am not a moral man! I have been in two marriages that ended because the sex disintergrated. For a marriage to work,there HAS to be sexual intimacy! In my opinion...
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That is why I choose to be single and have premarital sex!
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