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Topic: Older women
henrywe Joined Thu 10/10/13 Posts: 12	Sat 10/12/13 11:12 AM
Looking for an older women why are they so hard to find

katskary Joined Mon 08/26/13 Posts: 178	Sat 10/12/13 11:20 AM
coz u young boys r opportunists

GLG2009 Joined Wed 01/07/09 Posts: 7238	Sat 10/12/13 11:23 AM
coz u young boys r opportunists

henrywe Joined Thu 10/10/13 Posts: 12	Sat 10/12/13 11:25 AM
The minority give us a bad name I think that's unfair

GLG2009 Joined Wed 01/07/09 Posts: 7238	Sat 10/12/13 11:26 AM
Why aren't you looking for a young women?

henrywe Joined Thu 10/10/13 Posts: 12	Sat 10/12/13 11:31 AM
Older women tend to be more mature and I find them more attractive

katskary Joined Mon 08/26/13 Posts: 178	Sat 10/12/13 11:31 AM
The minority give us a bad name I think that's unfair u know wat one rotten tomato does 2 da rest. try yo luck but i guess u'll have alot of explaining 2 do coz they ain't easy 2 catch nowdays

GLG2009 Joined Wed 01/07/09 Posts: 7238	Sat 10/12/13 11:35 AM
I raised 3 boys, so I don't find young men attractive. Maybe other women feel the same.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/12/13 11:49 AM
I'm older and I'm immature.....

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Sat 10/12/13 11:52 AM
lol and in another thread a guy complained that old women was all he could find here

mahidey Joined Sat 10/12/13 Posts: 1	Sat 10/12/13 11:55 AM
Hiiiiii

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/12/13 12:01 PM
lol and in another thread a guy complained that old women was all he could find here He's looking in the wrong places. I've seen lots of younger women, usually in the newbie threads, but they're around.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/12/13 12:01 PM
coz u young boys r opportunists True.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/12/13 12:02 PM
I raised 3 boys, so I don't find young men attractive. Maybe other women feel the same. Same here, I used to be a teacher and I feel the same way.

henrywe Joined Thu 10/10/13 Posts: 12	Sat 10/12/13 12:05 PM
I think it's a shame you have these negative ideas aboyt younger people not everyone is the same you can't judge me from other previous experiences you may have had

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/12/13 12:07 PM
I don't think anyone is judging anyone, most people are just saying they're not interested in a younger guy. And most people are saying that younger guys usually want something from an older woman that they're not willing to give them. Everyone has a right to their own opinion.....

harshu4u Joined Tue 10/08/13 Posts: 8	Sat 10/12/13 12:07 PM
women should consider everyone different not same..

henrywe Joined Thu 10/10/13 Posts: 12	Sat 10/12/13 12:09 PM
I agree and I respect your opinions and everyone's else's can just be frustrating sometimes we are all different

harshu4u Joined Tue 10/08/13 Posts: 8	Sat 10/12/13 12:11 PM
yeah..just like all the 5 fingers cant be same..same as every young guy will not be same

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/12/13 01:02 PM
If you happened to get to know a woman who was older and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with an older woman as a person, and she clicks with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and I think that's creepy. Also, you're saying we're lumping younger people into one category, but aren't you doing the same by saying they're all more mature and more attractive? All older women aren't one thing, just like all younger men aren't one thing. Again, my opinion.....