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Topic: fantasies share or not to share?
OralManOnly Joined Mon 03/10/14 Posts: 131	Thu 03/13/14 10:12 AM
Do you share or perhaps indulge in your fantasies with your partner? If so, are there some you dare not to share? I'll go 1st. to "break the ice" ...... Yes, I do share my fantasies with my partner as well as at times explored and indulged (not always with the expected outcome!) I aslo admit to have fantasies I prefer to keep to myself, which don't include him at all. (which BTW I think is completely "normal")

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Thu 03/13/14 10:16 AM Edited by realcarebear on Thu 03/13/14 10:18 AM
Yeah I'd share! I think its a way of keeping things new and fresh! I want for him to share with me too. I keep some to myself as well

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Thu 03/13/14 10:17 AM
Nothing wrong with a bit of role play

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Thu 03/13/14 10:20 AM
Yep, we're still sharing. :D

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Thu 03/13/14 10:25 AM
I intend to do so when I find him :) But I know from experience it can be a bit awkward, just shy I guess. Not sure if I'd still be that shy, as I've changed a lot during and after my last relationship. So up to a point it'll be a surprise how I'll feel etc. For me nothing to do with role play, but guess we all got our fantasies.

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Thu 03/13/14 10:25 AM
Yeah I'd share! I think its a way of keeping things new and fresh! I want for him to share with me too. I keep some to myself as well I would love to know the ones you keep to yourself

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 03/13/14 10:34 AM
.. well lately. every partner becomes a fantasy.. I don't want normal.. so I make the date a fantasy. . if that makes any sense at all.. if you're talking role playing.. like she dresses up like a librarian.. and I'm the nerd returning late books..hmm.. then I definitely share those..

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 03/13/14 10:36 AM
If course I'd share them with my partner. I don't see the point in not sharing.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 03/13/14 10:41 AM
.. miss librarian.. I have been remiss.. in the timely return of my books.. there must be some penalty I have to pay..hmm. some form of punishment..yes.. the yardstick that will do nicely.. Ohh. that one stung a bit... no no don't stop.. oh yes and I think I wrote on one of the pages..mmm.yess. you want me to . hold my arms. straight out well I'm holding a book in each hand.. well I look down at you.. and not let go of the books..mmhmm.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Thu 03/13/14 10:44 AM
Nothing wrong with a bit of role play I was asked to join in in a bit of role play, but she got all confused when I brought out the 20-sided die.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Thu 03/13/14 11:03 AM
Definitely have shared fantasies with my partner in the past... Have had fantasies fulfilled... Some I do keep to myself... Other fantasies will have to wait until a later date...

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Thu 03/13/14 11:24 AM
I'm actually struggling to think of any sexual fantasy that I have that I haven't actually done and no, I'm not particularly into talking about it. I just do it. I'm open minded though and open to suggestions. Actually felt a bit flattered a while a go when a girl asked me to take her up the shiter and didn't mind at all when she said that she didn't like it because I'm bigger than her vibrator.

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Thu 03/13/14 09:12 PM
My fantasies are kinda boring Yes I would share but he would prolly smile at me, say "thats cute..but tell me your real ones now"

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Thu 03/13/14 09:58 PM
I've got a few fantasies but one always turns me on. It's nothing xrated but it works for me lol A man reading a book in bed with reading glasses on, a plain white tshirt , cologne , and pj pants. Waiting for me. Mmmmhhhhhhmmmm

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 03/13/14 11:53 PM
Yes sir, there are fantasies that I have explored and shared with my ex lover in the past. I felt comfortable with her and confided in her, however there are still a few I have kept to myself.

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4935	Fri 03/14/14 12:15 AM
that's an interesting thread , but it will be more interesting if members tell us about their fantasies ... we need brave hearts

OralManOnly Joined Mon 03/10/14 Posts: 131	Fri 03/14/14 02:25 AM
Definitely have shared fantasies with my partner in the past... Have had fantasies fulfilled... Some I do keep to myself... Other fantasies will have to wait until a later date... "You go girl" :)

OralManOnly Joined Mon 03/10/14 Posts: 131	Fri 03/14/14 02:25 AM
Yeah I'd share! I think its a way of keeping things new and fresh! I want for him to share with me too. I keep some to myself as well "smile" :)

OralManOnly Joined Mon 03/10/14 Posts: 131	Fri 03/14/14 02:27 AM
trust me, I don't think you would? .... I can be "pretty" adventurous with a very open mind ;) Yeah I'd share! I think its a way of keeping things new and fresh! I want for him to share with me too. I keep some to myself as well I would love to know the ones you keep to yourself

OralManOnly Joined Mon 03/10/14 Posts: 131	Fri 03/14/14 02:29 AM
nothing wrong with opening up to your partner and exploring each others fantasies = We ALL have them, some I know would not like to admit some ;) My fantasies are kinda boring Yes I would share but he would prolly smile at me, say "thats cute..but tell me your real ones now"