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Topic: I mean really
randymeyer Joined Thu 02/13/14 Posts: 1	Sat 03/29/14 07:19 PM
Is there any real people on here or isthis the imI'm better than you site ? Didn't anyone ever learn that evenif your not interested its rude to not say hello back

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45337	Sat 03/29/14 07:34 PM
I was valiant, intrepid in replying to all emails when first I joined. Could simply not keep up..carpal tunnel would kick in after a 100-200 emails each day. Then to compound it, one would get secondary emails full of venom and rage over being 'ignored.' Sometimes dude, it just is not smart to start a conversation, damned if you do, damned if you don't :-( No one is 'better than' anyone else. Enjoin the forums, get to know the active people. The worst that can happen is you might make friends :-)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/29/14 07:56 PM
it is a facet of cyber communications that requires some adjustment on the part of a newbie. Online etiquette does not appear to require a response unless there is mutual interest in continuing communication (due to the nature of the medium). Just as in a bar I might ignore a man who keeps looking at me....no response IS a response, and we have all had that happen

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 03/29/14 07:57 PM
.. everybody except me that is..lol

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Sat 03/29/14 08:00 PM
I believe the two ladies already covered everything. :)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/29/14 08:04 PM
.. everybody except me that is..lol you look like you're begging...lol

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sat 03/29/14 08:14 PM
I was valiant, intrepid in replying to all emails when first I joined. Could simply not keep up..carpal tunnel would kick in after a 100-200 emails each day. Then to compound it, one would get secondary emails full of venom and rage over being 'ignored.' Sometimes dude, it just is not smart to start a conversation, damned if you do, damned if you don't :-( No one is 'better than' anyone else. Enjoin the forums, get to know the active people. The worst that can happen is you might make friends :-) Uh huh...exactly... if I answered every mail..I'd never get to post in A thread...besides...yeah..I'm picky who I answer. I have a few certain regular friends I email almost Daily..but strangers~newbs count yourself lucky if I even read it. And extra lucky, if I answer it. Meh just telling it like it is #peoplelikeyoumademethisway

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48917	Sat 03/29/14 08:23 PM
Didn't anyone ever learn that even if your not interested its rude to not say hello back Oh? Just what school taught that?

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Sun 03/30/14 05:11 AM
No. I don't think so. I've said hello..when not interested and that person kept sending messages. Why frustrate yourself and them further when someone isn't interested?

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