Fed up with the sheer number of female fakes and frauds on dating sites. This includes those that purport to want to meet up in person but after several texts back and forth say they only want online dating.
How can YOU separate the real ones from fraudsters? I would like some feedback on this, in particular from real women wanting a real relationship. How would you set yourself apart to be taken seriously?

The only ways I can think of are to have a phone conversation or meet up at a public place. Yet websites make it a point to warn people against "offsite" communication. WHY??? The sites generally block attempts to send personal information as well. Seems like they have a vested interest in chaining people to their websites as a way of increasing revenue. I also would like some justification from the website for their warnings against offsite communication.