Topic: dating
john21146's photo
Wed 04/09/14 08:47 AM
hi is it me or do other people wonder if its all worth the effort to find some one who you could date .perhaps for friend ship or a relationship .went out with some on last year and we got on well lasted 5 mouths and then dumped me in a very callous way .have now lost the trust in people and dont know weather to look any more john tears

oldsage's photo
Wed 04/09/14 09:14 AM

hi is it me or do other people wonder if its all worth the effort to find some one who you could date .perhaps for friend ship or a relationship .went out with some on last year and we got on well lasted 5 mouths and then dumped me in a very callous way .have now lost the trust in people and dont know weather to look any more john tears


John, all of life is based on choices. Being alone, being together, etc.; all choices. Yes, taking chances on people is full of risk & risks can bring discomfort. I CHOSE to take risks, because being totally alone hurts worse than the being around people & taking the chance of getting hurt by them. Being married wasn't perfect, but was worth the discomforts. Chose carefully & accept what comes. YOU control YOUR risks.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 04/09/14 10:22 AM
Listen to oldsage :-)