its kinda strange but i just cant seem to unlove someone, ive been hurt many times & she doesnt seem to care about my feelings anymore... Man should have never invented love. :(

how is it that you can love someone who does not care about you? It sounds more like an obsession

I've loved people who didn't deserve it. Sometimes you realize tho its not love like sweetest said but obsession or lust. I dont see how anyone can love someone one minute and not the next. Sometimes you just have to live without the people you love because they're not healthy to keep in your life. Sucks. But the cool thing is you can love more than one person. There is more than one person who is right for you. When you find one who's right they will love you back and where it may not ever take the hurt that another did away its gonna be awesome and you know its okay! Oh well my stupid ramble for the day...

Once you love someone just accept it. Be happy that you are able to. Think of the alternative and not being able to love. To me it would be worse. That way can lead to being jaded. Does your loving her hurt her in any way? Think about it. Does your loving her hurt you in any way?