Topic: Am i ugly ?
Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 05/20/14 04:01 PM

.. did I hear somebody say something about taking prisoners..hmm.
. and speaking of fools.. in walks PhD.laugh flowerforyou



Nah. Pretty sure you were hearing things ;). And speaking of fools, in I walk :) flowers

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 05/20/14 04:03 PM

I agree with shy .. No power like language . Take a good look at your profile :-)



Blondie. Hi. flowerforyou

Danishgirl21's photo
Tue 05/20/14 11:41 PM
Thank you so much guys !!! To be honest I didn't expect so positive and sweet comments from people! You helped me to looking at it another way ! From now on I'm gonna show those guys what I'm
Worth :) <3!

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Wed 05/21/14 08:40 AM
I think you're cute. hang in there for the right person to come along. sometimes changing a hangout spot is a good idea.

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Wed 05/21/14 08:50 AM

Really I'm serious
Am I ugly ? Or not something I'm not very lucky with guys they only want to have sex it's like no one can love me ?


Guys like that are not worth your time of day. I have been in the same situation with guys but they go home very disappointed!

Hang in there flowerforyou

alvietee's photo
Thu 06/05/14 11:46 AM
Goodness girl your a DOLL and don't forget it !!!love

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Thu 06/05/14 12:26 PM
K bt I will love to u a lot...no sex if u want

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Thu 06/05/14 12:28 PM
Welcome and of course, You are pretty.flowerforyou

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 06/05/14 12:53 PM
I've met girls like you before. Girls with low self esteem tend to keep picking guys that treat them like crap for some reason. Maybe it's because they don't think that they are good enough to get somebody that will treat them right, or maybe the issues are a red flag thing for "decent" guys. Bottom line is that if you think that men only want you for one thing, you won't even believe it when someone comes along that wants you for more than just that and you won't get a relationship to work if you can't trust.

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Fri 06/06/14 08:19 PM

I've met girls like you before. Girls with low self esteem tend to keep picking guys that treat them like crap for some reason. Maybe it's because they don't think that they are good enough to get somebody that will treat them right, or maybe the issues are a red flag thing for "decent" guys. Bottom line is that if you think that men only want you for one thing, you won't even believe it when someone comes along that wants you for more than just that and you won't get a relationship to work if you can't trust.

You're not too far off the mark there, sir. I've seen this many times. There are so many jaded women out there, esp when they get into their 40's-50's. Many have been hurt so badly and so often by so many, that they are blind to the men who are not that way (and there still are quite a few men who are sincerely respectful, kind, and honest in their relationships). This is especially true if the guy is at all decent looking. Women seem to run off in the opposite direction when a good-looking man makes a move towards them and they don't think of themselves as being "pretty enough". Trust me on this. I run into this situation a lot.
To the OP: You're a very nice looking woman, but your posted picture should show you with a nice smile. Instead, I see a woman who is not confident and unhappy. You're a target for the wolves.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sat 06/07/14 07:48 PM
There's a reason I never usually answer threads with this sort of title. Self confidence shouldn't rely on what others think. I often think it's doing more harm than good, having a 'Rate Me' thread. People were insecure enough about how they looked as a teen. So to have that pressure put upon you again, it feels like you're being thrown to the wolves. If it makes you feel any better, half of those people who win 'X Factor', 'American Idol', get by on their image. Even my performing arts tutors used to tell us they had favourites. As in, "You're one of our favourite students. Don't tell anyone". You are as human as anyone else. You were born, and you'll die. You breathe the same oxygen as the rest of us. You shouldn't have to be told how "gorgeous" you are. I'm glad I didn't. I'd be afraid of giving you a complex about looking "hot". And that would do you no good. And listen, being a slim model figure isn't all that. Just listen to 'Pretty Hurts' by Beyonce. And you'll learn the true cost of trying to live up to "perfection". I'd rather you went and enjoyed your day, than worry whether you're good enough. "It's the soul that needs the surgery" ;)

AMILIA1724's photo
Sat 06/07/14 08:00 PM
You are beautiful,if you come to my country?You can ba a model.

roushan10021994's photo
Sat 06/07/14 08:16 PM
No u r so beatful

Thomas27's photo
Sat 06/07/14 09:48 PM

K bt I will love to u a lot...no sex if u want


If only this could have been the second post in the thread, it wouldn't have made it two Pages and all problems would be solved...

Thomas27's photo
Sat 06/07/14 09:49 PM

No u r so beatful


That's a little harsh lol, don't hold back!

LakiP714's photo
Sun 06/08/14 07:28 PM
nah I think you're cute

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Sun 06/08/14 07:52 PM

Really I'm serious
Am I ugly ? Or not something I'm not very lucky with guys they only want to have sex it's like no one can love me ?


As others have already said, no, you are not ugly. Be confident about yourself, and you'll find the right person.

xedom47's photo
Sun 06/08/14 07:56 PM
You are very beautiful ! Maybe you need to be a Lil more picky you need to respect yourself an expect respect from whom ever your with ! If there is no respect then time to keep looking an you'll find the right guy who will love an respect you for who you are !

GDrudik's photo
Tue 06/10/14 09:51 PM
I didn't read everybody's responses so it's highly possible that this point has already been driven home. But I'm going to through in my two cents anyway.

You are a very beautiful young woman and any man who is lucky enough to have you and foolish enough to throw you away is an idiot! And if that still doesn't do it...

Du er en meget smuk ung kvinde og enhver mand, der er heldige at have dig og dum nok til at smide dig v�k, er en idiot!


VaughanLewis's photo
Wed 06/11/14 09:02 AM
No you are not, not at all. I have the same problem about not getting replies but then I probably am ugly :wink: