It would be so much helpful if men come with an instruction book and warranty.
If I want to know something l can look it up. Mmmmm might check out google for their ideas. Lol

the Man Book? let me know if it's a pop up book and has pics

and ya know all warranties will be null and void when
1. he is coming down with a cold and has the sniffles and wants to be babied
2. his mama comes to vist
3. the super bowl is on

did you want words too?

oh fine it can have words too..

like boobs, beer, bacon, boat, hunting rifle, tools, golf

there may be chapter subheadings such as:

Laundry
why clothes on floor may not be dirty enough yet to put in hamper or wash

Tools
why it does matter if the wrench is 3/4 or a 3/8
and yes it does matter when you hand me wrong one on your way by and say something like " whatever they all look alike" and roll your eyes

vehicle maintainance
why it does matter to describe the noise as more than
" thumpa thumpa"

Fishing
when he reels in the whopper and proudly displays it to you in all his manliness

the proper response is probably not
" ewwwww we don't have to eat that thing do we? It's gonna stink up whole house "

well that's extra

got a boat annie? hmmmm thats what us farm boys call a keeper,who cares if ya'll drive on the wrong side of the road,,LOL

Yes and the house by the beach lol with everything we need to fish. We are fisherman/woman.

Love, commitment, security, understanding, empathy, courage, passion, support, respect, intimacy, romance, ...

As usual, I did not learn much from this topic. If I had to say from this, going by the majority of what men want? Food: mainly sandwiches and fried chicken, and a woman who doesn't lie. Really? Well I love to cook. And I don't lie.

..., integrity, forgiveness, acceptance, serenity, compassion, ...

DON'T:
Don't cheat.
Don't say you want a divorce month after month.
Don't expect him to be perfect.
Don't call him at work 5 times a day.
Don't flirt with other guys, its shows your lack of feelings, and shows how desperate you are for attention.
Never ever get a tattoo on your back, *** or pelvic region (slut).
Don't argue about everything.
Don't hang around with sluttie friends lest you become one!
Don't have **** sex with him or anyone (slut).
Don't try to change him.

DO:
Cook for him.
Look into his eyes and smile.
Be happy for who he is and for what he does for you.
Hug him, say I love you and mean it.
Be kind.
Be loving.
Submit when your in private, don't rush it! and shave once in a while or ask him what he would like (and do it unless it is immoral, disgusting, demeaning or painful)
Keep the house clean if you don't have a job.
Be honest.
Love God.

How to get him:
Difficult on a dating site because most men want sex, and just sex!
Show interest in him, say hi daily, ask how he's doing.
Try to say different things to spark his interest.
Be open and honest about what you want: date, friendship, marriage so that he knows your intention. BTW, very few men have time for a female friend on a date site so if that's what you want you're on the wrong site - do that at a bookstore (maybe i will see you there).
Men want a challenge they can overcome! And you are it! Be very careful about giving in and giving it away because interest will fade quickly if it was only about that!
Post only your most beautiful pics! (I could care less what women think of my looks but men go for looks first!)
Post only photos that are current!
Men don't mind if you take the first move and ask for a cup of coffee in a public place. Bring a friend with you on the date and have him or her sit somewhere else if that makes you feel comfortable.

Just my .02... good luck!!!!

Wow, Kcpips, those are a lot of demands. Nobody can fill that.

Asking a blanket question like this is unfair and leads to contentious and heated battles of the sexes. It's better to look inward and figure out what you want and look for a guy who has those qualities. I don't care what "women" are looking for. I simply care about one who has the qualities I'm looking for. Likewise, I would advise that you forget about what "men" are looking for.

Peace and love and a Dagwood Sandwich

... faith, charity, laughter, equality, desire, ...

Oh Yeah? Which ones?

oh yeah? which ones?

Lets hope i make sense, we both(sexes) are looking for the same thing ...just with different levels of comprehension, affinity and maturity (physical,emotional,spiritual).
Our comprehension of what we search for may be dictated by our experience as we integrate ourselves to our ever changing surrounding. By affinity i mean how close or dearly we want what we are searching for and maturity kind of speaks for itself, but what one lacks can be a major drawback if viewed with lack of comprehension, affinity and maturity.
Bear with me please these are just unfinished thoughts, with all your inputs i bet we can paint a better portrait.

Looking for real love,depends on individual !

Hi like to meet a girl,with whom I can share all my thoughts and who is trust worthy and can understand me ,is there anyone who is intersted !