there are way too many factors in attraction to say it's limited to one thing or the other.

You know people should stop saying how much they wanna have sex with my mind. Or they are attracted to how I wake up and go to work every morning. Or that I dreamed of one day becoming an Olympic gymnast. Or that I can recite War and Peace and the entire collection of Robert Frost. Or just, I don't know, me cleaning my house. Putting up with the world on a daily basis. Because yes, there are so many variables and I only skimmed the surface. And neither of the above count toward the matters of the heart.