Topic: First
MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:34 AM
What comes first for you, the desire to have sex with another person?

or

Falling in love and showing it by having sex with that person?

Are you able to give into temptation before uttering those three words? Are sexual desire and love truly linked?

Do things just happen?

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:36 AM
For me ... first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes sex.

7z3r05's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:36 AM
I've been trying to have sex since I was 13 haha.

Due to my biological imperative, I'd say the former drinker

Thomas27's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:40 AM
Honestly, sex usually always comes first. Do not like to just go throwing around those three words, especially if I do not mean them.

I do believe there is more passion, intimacy and the potential to be more intense when love is involved.

no photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:42 AM

For me ... first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes sex.


Exactly the same for me :angel:

no1phD's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:43 AM
Hmm.. for me it always kind of just
happens... I do not date people I do not have a sexual desire to be with there must be some sexualchemistry between us.. and then usually.. that doesn't take very long.. to turn into a. five alarm fire.. if you know what I mean..lol... I always try my best.. to hold out as long as I can.. damn my sexual vibe... I just don't know how to shut it off... like right now you're probably thinking..hmmm.. he is sexy..
..lmao...laugh rofl :banana: frustrated frustrated :thumbsup: waving :angel: rofl :angel:

no1phD's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:59 AM
^^^ too funny..laugh rofl
you have such a unique and fascinating way of looking at things..
happy :wink:

carteblanc's photo
Wed 06/25/14 11:01 AM
Edited by carteblanc on Wed 06/25/14 11:16 AM
Looking back in history, men's libido has been a primary driving factor for all relationships involving physical connection, and I think it will continue to be that way.. It's not easy to spot an impotent man actively pursuing a tryst..

However, if men fall in love, they get to control their urges out of their respect for their partners' emotional needs and their ideas of how they want their relationship to develop..

Just my two cents.. :smile:

stan_147's photo
Wed 06/25/14 11:02 AM
This topic always reminds me of the used car analogy.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 06/25/14 11:03 AM
Freaking tiny insects produce loads of sperm. That's beautiful. I respect how they fight each other, all that build up, no wonder.

HoneyFly's photo
Wed 06/25/14 11:39 AM
Flirting... maybe a smile or a wink. :smile: