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Topic: so done with it all
soufiehere's photo
Tue 09/16/14 02:21 PM
Aww PKH :-)
I have said it many times..until you meet in the flesh
people can say whatever they want to about themselves.

You were wise in that you were ready to meet first before
too much wooing had happened.

But a liar is a liar.
And they can be GOOD at it.
Look you right in the eye and carry it off.

Intentions are everything.
You must become a hard-core discerner!!!

no1phD's photo
Tue 09/16/14 02:26 PM
Wooing...omg... last time I heard that..
. Bob Hope was still playing golf..lol..jk..flowerforyou

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 09/16/14 03:23 PM

So I haven't been around to much for awhile. I met someone a couple months ago. We met on another site. Emailed for awhile, went to yahoo messenger, video chatted. Talked on the phone for hours daily. He started to say he loved me after a month. I said don't go there yet. Anyway things were good but we talked from his job everyday all day. A private number. Never at night or weekends. Finally being as slow as I am we were suppose to meet. I confronted him on why I didn't have his number or he never was available nights or weekends, he always had an excuse he finally admitted he was in a bad marriage. I ended it right then. I was blinded and feel like a fool. Never again my trust is gone. I told him everything about my health the whole nine yards. So done with it all. Why do people do that?


Yeah that sucks, I'm sorry people do this and aren't up front about simple things like that. I guess it doesn't want to be seen as a red flag when a man doesn't want to give his number. Loved you after a month? Wow, desperato. I don't know, people are rude and insensitive. I just think I believe more of what someone does to what they say. They can say anything to me and it honestly deep down wouldn't shock me. People can be so manipulating. ohwell Not sure why people lie. Never quite figured that part out. It's cowardly.

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 09/16/14 03:46 PM
Hey PK, yeah it's the poops when ya trust somebody and they let ya down, but hey, he didn't get your bank account number or anything.
Chalk it up to experience and move on.

pkh's photo
Tue 09/16/14 06:59 PM
All I can say is thank you guys and gals and I sure missed you all. And the red flags were going off I was just to crazy to pay attention. No1 I'll be looking for that good apple in the bunch. I'm not bashing men I know there's plenty of good ones out there.

no photo
Wed 09/17/14 10:34 AM
Edited by AmberM3 on Wed 09/17/14 10:36 AM
Sorry I was trying to reply in a reply, didn't work out too well.

This is a crappy situation. My husband has taken full advantage of the internet dating sites, that is what I am doing out here. Hoping he is not, :(

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