Topic: What will you choose the one you love or the one who loves y
Nettogirl's photo
Wed 12/10/14 06:03 AM
Hope reply

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/10/14 06:13 AM
one must choose both equally to live balance, or one will wobble like a top to and fro.

Youthfulcharmer's photo
Wed 12/10/14 06:17 AM
We don't really have a choice in love. I wouldn't really call the love I have for someone who doesn't love me back as true love. It's merely an unhealthy obsession or addiction I need to snap out of. Same goes to the person oh loves me without me knowing. But if somebody truly loves me, and I know it, I'd definitely love her and give her all that I gotta offer. Only a belief in oneself and ones abilities could make one a truly capable of real love.

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Wed 12/10/14 07:03 AM

luking4frens's photo
Wed 12/10/14 07:09 AM

one must choose both equally to live balance, or one will wobble like a top to and fro.


I absolutely agree with davidben1.

mrld_ii's photo
Wed 12/10/14 07:20 AM
Neither.

If it TRULY is that we MUST choose on or the other, I'll happily remain 'alone' and refrain from settling.


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DjGizzo's photo
Wed 12/10/14 07:23 AM
bad things happen when only one half is in love wait for the right one

imraan121's photo
Wed 12/10/14 08:31 AM
one who loves me

no photo
Wed 12/10/14 08:35 AM
That is a ridiculous situation for me coz nobody could ever love me but i could love someone but if the one i love doesn't love me then no point of being with either one....i would be alone drinks

mysticalview21's photo
Wed 12/10/14 09:33 AM
now how can you say that unknown nobody could ever love me...
I can not believe that ...


their are to many reasons that people can give why they would love you and you not love them back...

I would prefer both I love him he loves me ... and yes would give my all and would expect him to do the same ...

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/10/14 09:55 AM

That is a ridiculous situation for me coz nobody could ever love me but i could love someone but if the one i love doesn't love me then no point of being with either one....i would be alone drinks



never say that nobody could ever love you - that�s not true, or I�ll eat my boot. maybe you just didn�t notice :smile: sometimes I do think the same about myself, but it�s not objectiv true either.


For the question: if I don�t love him, I�won�t be able to be with him - wouldn�t be able to give him all he deserves - it wouldn�t be fair and honest. And if he doesn�t love me - well, I guess it would be too painful for me, so i wouldn�t stay either.


GeorgiaGuy30's photo
Wed 12/10/14 10:09 AM
Love isn't real it's just a word...I've been down that road twice and after a few years they just get bored and move on...and then tell some other dude they love them...Pick the one you want the most for a short time...It's most likely gonna crash and burn anyways (isn't that how most of us ending up here lol)

theseacoast's photo
Wed 12/10/14 10:21 AM
Edited by theseacoast on Wed 12/10/14 10:22 AM

Love isn't real it's just a word...I've been down that road twice and after a few years they just get bored and move on...and then tell some other dude they love them...Pick the one you want the most for a short time...It's most likely gonna crash and burn anyways (isn't that how most of us ending up here lol)



Love is a very much real thing - how would we know about it, if we would never feel it in ourselves? But not everyone can respond to our love in a way we expect or need - so we break up. To find someone who is capable - and also willing - to give his�hers love and tak� ours - that�s another question. But love does exist and is as much real as anyone of us is real.

You�ll find it too flowerforyou