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Topic: Am I scaring people away or what?
SacramentAl Joined Mon 02/23/09 Posts: 160	Tue 03/03/15 06:21 AM
The only thing I don't like about how I look is how I've been treated by other people because of what they think and believe about heavy people.

Mingle2last Joined Sat 01/31/15 Posts: 2	Tue 03/03/15 06:46 AM Edited by Mingle2last on Tue 03/03/15 06:46 AM
It sure seems to be a huge problem from what people are saying. It's not like I'm not trying but it's one of the most difficult things in the world to do, let alone all the suffering involved. It would sure be encouraging if someone came along who cared and offered support but didn't make a big deal out of it either. I'm not a shallow person either, someone's outward appearance is the least important thing for me. I did ask you a question in this thread on page 2 could you read that and reply to it please. And it's not just about your weight, I think some woman may be concerned for your health and not the way you look. I agree, especially with more and more focus on active lifestyle and healthy eating habits. However, do it for yourself and not coz everybody else's wants it. It will make you feel good about yourself

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 03/03/15 07:56 AM
The only thing I don't like about how I look is how I've been treated by other people because of what they think and believe about heavy people. .. dude... it's not your job to care what other people think.. Thats a dead end job.... it's what you think that matters... and yes not every woman is going to want a taller bigger man..... but you should not be interested in those women.... you are only interested in the women that like taller bigger men...... and yes dude they are out there..... but you know what women like more than taller bigger men.?.. Taller bigger men with confidence... someone who is OK in their own skin... and a good sense of humor about themselves... .. so stop hanging around this topic. . and join in on some of the other topics.... it's a great way to show them that you have the right stuff... ... . .

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Tue 03/03/15 09:05 AM
The only thing I don't like about how I look is how I've been treated by other people because of what they think and believe about heavy people. .. dude... it's not your job to care what other people think.. Thats a dead end job.... it's what you think that matters... and yes not every woman is going to want a taller bigger man..... but you should not be interested in those women.... you are only interested in the women that like taller bigger men...... and yes dude they are out there..... but you know what women like more than taller bigger men.?.. Taller bigger men with confidence... someone who is OK in their own skin... and a good sense of humor about themselves... .. so stop hanging around this topic. . and join in on some of the other topics.... it's a great way to show them that you have the right stuff... ... . . Well said doc!!!....Confidence is sexy!!!

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Tue 03/03/15 09:24 AM
The only thing I don't like about how I look is how I've been treated by other people because of what they think and believe about heavy people. .. dude... it's not your job to care what other people think.. Thats a dead end job.... it's what you think that matters... and yes not every woman is going to want a taller bigger man..... but you should not be interested in those women.... you are only interested in the women that like taller bigger men...... and yes dude they are out there..... but you know what women like more than taller bigger men.?.. Taller bigger men with confidence... someone who is OK in their own skin... and a good sense of humor about themselves... .. so stop hanging around this topic. . and join in on some of the other topics.... it's a great way to show them that you have the right stuff... ... . . Nice post for sure