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Ladies, do you ever begin talking to a guy but as you're talking with him it becomes obvious as phuck he's more interested than you are and lays it down pretty thick? Telling someone no is no big deal, but it's the smell of desperation that's a turn off for me. Pressuring someone into revealing your life story doesn't work on the first date or conversation. I wish more people would understand that it's a mutual growth for both parties. A green light because we're both chatting doesn't mean spill everything. It also doesn't mean stalk me and actually admit it. Is taking it slow overlooked these days? Methinks it's more the truth anything else.
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oooh come on, nothing wrong with a stalker, love it when a crazy azz woman shows up at my house with out calling first,,can you say NEEDY????
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Personally I've found that starting off chatting is fine then before you've even met the guy he's asking when he's gonna get laid. I agree with you what happened to taking it slowly. It's almost as if because you're on a site like this you're desperate for anyone.
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oooh come on, nothing wrong with a stalker, love it when a crazy azz woman shows up at my house with out calling first,,can you say NEEDY???? 
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oooh come on, nothing wrong with a stalker, love it when a crazy azz woman shows up at my house with out calling first,,can you say NEEDY???? |
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Mon 04/06/15 09:19 AM
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mmm... i guess one person's prerogative to apply the pressure, is another's prerogative to draw the line... even when it happens repeatedly... or to extremes...
otherwise, one can be prone to take advantage of the other (up to a certain point, become a form of harassment/abuse?)... or be put in the friend zone... 
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If I didn't ask then I don't wanna know. If I'm interested you'll know.
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Draw a line when needed sometimes people need that sort of upfront approach. I am not a fan of being friendzoned so I make sure to draw the line pretty quickly myself. I am reminded of one of my favorite quotes. "Waiting at a closed door while an open one beckons is both foolish and futile."
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Ladies, do you ever begin talking to a guy but as you're talking with him it becomes obvious as phuck he's more interested than you are and lays it down pretty thick? Telling someone no is no big deal, but it's the smell of desperation that's a turn off for me. Pressuring someone into revealing your life story doesn't work on the first date or conversation. I wish more people would understand that it's a mutual growth for both parties. A green light because we're both chatting doesn't mean spill everything. It also doesn't mean stalk me and actually admit it. Is taking it slow overlooked these days? Methinks it's more the truth anything else. lol, pressure? I was basically informed that I was a girl friend a couple days ago. I said....."um....I WAS dating before you..."... |
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I miss the stalker I had back in 2003.
She was smokin' hawt. And... The creepy stalker sex was OUTSTANDING! 
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Draw a line when needed sometimes people need that sort of upfront approach. I am not a fan of being friendzoned so I make sure to draw the line pretty quickly myself. I am reminded of one of my favorite quotes. "Waiting at a closed door while an open one beckons is both foolish and futile." Yes. It's important to uphold that principle for both sexes. Friends in my life don't apply to this, but to the man I am dating, absolutely. |
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I miss the stalker I had back in 2003. She was smokin' hawt. And... The creepy stalker sex was OUTSTANDING! I guess this trait goes along with why we don't understand why you love two women together. |
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Edited by
yellowrose10
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Mon 04/06/15 09:32 AM
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If I didn't ask then I don't wanna know. If I'm interested you'll know. Maybe the guy didn't realize he crossed boundaries. Not all women have this motto. I am an open book and I don't mind getting it out there. If it's something I don't want to discuss, I just tell them that. No harm done |
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If I didn't ask then I don't wanna know. If I'm interested you'll know. Maybe the guy didn't realize he crossed boundaries. Not all women have this motto. I am an open book and I don't mind getting it out there. I said "I" three times there. And I always tell them. |
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I miss the stalker I had back in 2003. She was smokin' hawt. And... The creepy stalker sex was OUTSTANDING! |
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If I didn't ask then I don't wanna know. If I'm interested you'll know. Maybe the guy didn't realize he crossed boundaries. Not all women have this motto. I am an open book and I don't mind getting it out there. I said "I" three times there. And I always tell them. I saw that. I was giving a possible explanation why a guy might want to know if some women are fi e with it while others aren't, hard for them to know. The op didn't state that you said no (unless I missed something) If you told them no and they can't respect it...just walk away |
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Edited by
Rock
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Mon 04/06/15 09:38 AM
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I miss the stalker I had back in 2003. She was smokin' hawt. And... The creepy stalker sex was OUTSTANDING! I guess this trait goes along with why we don't understand why you love two women together. How, exactly, do I love two women together? Who, exactly, are these two women I love together?  Edit to add: Inbox me your answers. |
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If I didn't ask then I don't wanna know. If I'm interested you'll know. Maybe the guy didn't realize he crossed boundaries. Not all women have this motto. I am an open book and I don't mind getting it out there. I said "I" three times there. And I always tell them. I saw that. I was giving a possible explanation why a guy might want to know if some women are fi e with it while others aren't, hard for them to know. The op didn't state that you said no (unless I missed something) If you told them no and they can't respect it...just walk away I was putting the question out there if anyone had that same experience before. I wasn't asking for advice. |
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Edited by
yellowrose10
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Mon 04/06/15 09:42 AM
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Good grief...
 You asked if taking it slow was overlooked these days. Not everyone thinks the same way...hence my post |
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I was talking about how a MAN might see it and not realize he is over stepping his bounds BECAUSE women are different.
Who is talking about moods? 
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