If we're meeting in a public place I don't tell them that I'll be the guy holding a newspaper or wearing a flower in his buttonhole. I tell them to look out for me; the man in those pictures on my profile.

I can't imagine that a woman would tell me that she's a busty thirty year old blonde and not be anything like that when she showed up. Most of them lie about their ages anyway, so if she turns out to be forty that isn't completely awful because that's still within the age range that I would date. One woman turned out to be fifty two, when her profile said forty eight. She said that she did that because young guys kept hitting on her when it had her real age on it.