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Topic: Women please answer honestly
metalwing's photo
Thu 10/08/15 03:41 AM

Why do women say they want an honest mature man..provide their phone number... Call you and answer all of your calls.. However, when it comes to meeting them in person they flake out.. Afterwords, they mysteriously disappear


Because they are guys posing as women!

tshon's photo
Fri 10/09/15 04:49 AM
Edited by tshon on Fri 10/09/15 04:50 AM
There could be multiple reasons why. My top 3 are:

1. She spoke to you on the phone and there was no chemistry for her yet she continued talking to you just to be sure that there was no chemistry

2. She spoke to you on the phone and you came on a little too strong and scared her off

3. She has someone in her life and decided she does not want to step out on them with you

Not all women are flakes. Some women say they want honest "real" men and they mean that. You may happen to be a good and honest man, but does that mean she should automatically want to be with you because you are those things? When it's all stripped and bare you need that chemistry...frustrated

Candiapples's photo
Sat 10/10/15 07:59 AM


Why do women say they want an honest mature man..provide their phone number... Call you and answer all of your calls.. However, when it comes to meeting them in person they flake out.. Afterwords, they mysteriously disappear


Women are just pure evil dude.....but God I love em. laugh
women I think get pushed too fast into meeting. Men do not want to waste any time before visually seeing them in person.

Women like to get to know the guy a bit before wasting her time meeting. Just my opinion :-)

 Maria195's photo
Sat 10/10/15 08:07 AM


Why do women say they want an honest mature man..provide their phone number... Call you and answer all of your calls.. However, when it comes to meeting them in person they flake out.. Afterwords, they mysteriously disappear


Women are just pure evil dude.....but God I love em. laugh


Hey now... not all of us are evil. Because I can say the samething about some men.:smile:

1Marie63's photo
Sat 10/10/15 08:26 AM


flowerforyou Why do men ask me my name?flowerforyou


It might be because they want to be sure what your name is. Just because you have "Tina" in your online name, doesn't mean it's yours to most people. It's common for someone to use a totally different name on the internet.


This is true. Today was the first time anyone ever asked me my name on here. Everyone assumes it's Marie. It's not but my real name was taken so I used my middle name.

As far as why they flake out could be a variety of reasons. Just like in real life there are many different types of people on the net. Maybe something you said scared her off or maybe she was just playing you all along. People change their minds just like in the real world.

swagshipper's photo
Sat 10/10/15 11:12 AM
Tina?

margetwen7's photo
Sun 10/11/15 08:55 AM
Lack of self confidence, afraid of rejections, or Maybe all the things that she said was a lie!

indianadave4's photo
Mon 10/12/15 11:25 AM
1. Afraid you may not like what you see.
2. They've been burned in the past and when it comes down to meeting they can't go through with it.
3. They just want someone to flirt with. When the "let's go out" question comes up they're not interested.
4. They like to tease men/women.
5. He/she has a ring on their left hand ring finger.
6. He/she got cold feet at the idea of meeting.

no photo
Mon 10/12/15 02:33 PM
I never provide my phone number or ask for a number. It is always the guy who pushes too much, too soon. I try to go slow and get to know someone. I guess that's the wrong way to go.

no photo
Mon 10/12/15 09:42 PM

I never provide my phone number or ask for a number. It is always the guy who pushes too much, too soon. I try to go slow and get to know someone. I guess that's the wrong way to go.


It's not the wrong way to go when someone really wants to get to know you as a person. If a man pushes too hard, he doesn't want to know you as a person. All he wants to know is what's down south of your navel.

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