Topic: Complicated Relation
BriJay09's photo
Sat 10/17/15 04:55 PM
sometimes I just don't know what to do???

soufiehere's photo
Sat 10/17/15 05:07 PM
Well, how can we know
if you can hardly tell?

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Sat 10/17/15 05:20 PM
Whatever you do, you should do it at least twice.

Datwasntme's photo
Sat 10/17/15 05:45 PM
being yourself is a great start : )

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Sat 10/17/15 05:47 PM
What is complicated about the relationship? Are you the problem or the solution?

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Sat 10/17/15 07:24 PM
Complicated Relation

IME when people say "it's complicated," it's shorthand for:
"It's not complicated. It's easy. But if I'm honest about it then it could possibly open me up for negative judgment."

Otherwise it's shorthand for:
"It's not complicated, I just don't want to talk to you about it."

sometimes I just don't know what to do?

Do you not know what to do?
Or are you just afraid of what you want to do because it's not what you're supposed to do?

IME people use the former to hide the latter.