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Topic: Why is it hard to find good and responsible men
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Sat 11/14/15 07:59 AM
Please I need an answer to this question

Datwasntme's photo
Sat 11/14/15 08:11 AM
uhm
looking in the wrong places
over thinking it
looking to fail (meaning setting the bar so high no one could hit the point)
havent found the right one yet

the list is endless
the trick is to keep looking
cause with out trying you will never find

best wishes on your hunt

you can add a picture to up your chances
lots of guys wont reply if you dont have a pic up or send you an email for that matter
it dont help the area you are from Nigeria cause its known for scammers and fake people
but at least you are being truth full putting that on there so that is at least a point in your direction

best wishes on your hunt
keep your head up , your prince could be right around the corner
you never know : )

misstina2's photo
Sat 11/14/15 08:29 AM
Edited by misstina2 on Sat 11/14/15 08:29 AM
flowerforyou on here if you want to up chances add picturesflowerforyou Don't limit yourself look hereflowerforyou look wherever you are doing activities flowerforyou if you have no way to relocate look locallyflowerforyou good luckflowerforyou

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 11/14/15 01:27 PM
Have you tried looking behind the couch?

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 11/14/15 01:57 PM
"Why is it hard to find good and responsible men"


Please I need an answer to this question


The question assumes what has yet to be proven.

What if good and responsible men aren't hard to find?

TyphoonMk1b's photo
Sat 11/14/15 04:19 PM
men do the smart thing and shy away from women...
women that seek men that take responsibility.

we understand that to mean:
Provide me and my 3 kids (from 3 different fathers) with housing, food, clothing and so forth. and if you do not, i will call the Law on you.

A woman can take responsibility for herself.
if she does not, she often seeks a man to do that for her.

Therefor women seeking responsible men are not, and with that disqualify themselves for long term relationships and marriage.

mightymoe's photo
Sat 11/14/15 04:42 PM
there are good men and women everywhere... if you're having a problem finding one, then it is something that you're doing wrong, not the rest of the world...

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Sat 11/14/15 04:45 PM
I'm going to ask my magic 8 ball. Hang on a moment.

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Sat 11/14/15 04:47 PM
Your outlook is good. :thumbsup:

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sat 11/14/15 04:57 PM
Living in Nigeria, in the age of the great repeating Nigerian Prince/Princess scams, will make things extra tough for you in the online world.

As for myself, I have come to the conclusion that truly "good and responsible men" or women have ALWAYS been scarce. Not because humans are inherently nasty and selfish, or anything as negative or depressing as that.

It's more that I discovered that it takes a great deal of conscious effort and work, for anyone to be good and responsible. I think that most people don't recognize that, and go through their lives from one moment to the next, expecting that the fact that they are trying to please themselves, will have the natural result that whatever they do will be "good," or at least "for the best."

And without the effort, and with all of the disparate forces and other people in the world, ever urging everyone to cater to whatever whims are most profitable to THEM, this sort of laissez faire approach to life, will almost certainly result in most people leading, shall we say, less than elegant lives.

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Sat 11/14/15 05:54 PM

Have you tried looking behind the couch?


Last time I did that it ended in an exorcism.

Rock's photo
Sat 11/14/15 06:18 PM
Nookin' fo' nub in all da wong pwaces...

panchovanilla's photo
Sat 11/14/15 07:02 PM
I suppose we're all just busy,
doing 'guy' stuff.




EmJ1504's photo
Sat 11/14/15 07:16 PM

Please I need an answer to this question


You posted this the same day you joined the site... give the poor guys a chance!!

As for "responsible" it has so many different meanings and is subject to personal opinion - to me is means 'boring'.

Annierooroo's photo
Sat 11/14/15 10:24 PM
Guys are visual so put up a photo with class. In other words don't show your assets off. Some things are best kept secrets for special occasions.

Welcome to the family

VioletTigress's photo
Sun 11/15/15 01:04 AM
Because the good ones are all in relationships already? I don’t know.

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Sun 11/15/15 01:27 AM
Because some woman they do not respect the husband so no to fine responsible is my God .....i am looking for a responsible girl to be with i can fine ....i know she willl come one day to me.

del_abu143's photo
Sun 11/15/15 05:49 AM
"love is a stranger and funny thing.."

we have to wait who is really for us...
thats why so we hurt because we love the wrong person or unbelievers who are not destined for us...

#wait for the ryt tym...

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Sun 11/15/15 06:19 AM
Because most of us, don't just stick our bait out for just any sucker....oops devil

jazzydude2000's photo
Mon 11/16/15 08:15 PM

Because the good ones are all in relationships already? I don’t know.


Not all the good one's are taken. How do I know that? I know that

based on hard factual documented evidence. And I can prove it.

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