I had a number of people that had clicked YES to meet me. The red heart showed up by their names every time I went into the search area. But in the last two days all the red hearts are gone! Why would that be?

Why don't they leave a message. I hate always being the first if they like you first they should leave a message.

I looked over my "recents activities" log and I see messages were sent out to individuals, messages that I NEVER composed! I tried to view those messages but they were no where to be found in any of my mails! Also, those individuals who received those composed mails that I never sent out, they replied back but even their replies are no where to be found! Another strange notice, ALL my matches are from Nigeria and Ghana! Anyone one with similar concern? I'm already discouraged to continue having a profile on here if this is something others are also experiencing on this dating site! Urgent help please!

I got one from Ghana too. I just joined. Haven't had anyone send anything to me and I have friended about 30 people and left messages for them first hoping for a response back from someone. But nothing.

Dude....you have only been here one day...
Friending people by the truckload isn't gonna get you anywhere...
How are they real friends if that friendship hasn't been earned by sharing various experiences?...
Leaving tons of messages will certainly fail....
You are wasting your time....

Make your profile interesting and add a little bit of humour....
You want the reader to smile...laugh and think...hmmmm I'm gonna write to this guy....

Join in the forums on a regular basis...
People will read your views and gain an understanding of who are...
If they like what they read it gives them another reason to write to you....

But remember...its early days yet....give it a few months...