How difficult is it to date attractive and nice women online? For myself, I would say I'm at least ok looking, I'm college educated and extraordinarily successful. I'm 26 years old. My only downside is I don't know how to be funny/charming/charismatic in how I write. I can be a lot of fun in real life but I know I come across a little generic online.


From what I've seen, even just decent looking women want to date male 10/10s online. Women get bombarded with such a gigantic horde of messages that they're all looking for a man who is extraordinarily good looking. In my case, I feel like I'm not horrible looking but I'm not that top 0.1% stunning that women go crazy for. What are y'all thoughts on this? I totally want a girlfriend, not trying to just get laid. I don't mind a little hard work - I'll send out a 100 messages to get a couple dates.


I want to try online dating because I've never had a girlfriend in my life. I dealt with a lot of self esteem issues at a young age and was never able to start my dating life. Right now though, I feel better about myself than I've ever felt before so I really really want to start my dating life someway somehow. I just need a few dates - I can be plenty charming in real life in an isolated one on one situation but I just don't get any opportunities.


Here's a picture of me if you are curious what I look like. I feel like I'm much more attractive in real life than pics so I want to have a professional take some pics of me and show me how to pose properly

Good start man....
Now....
My advice is too....
Put that pic as your profile pic....
Place a edited version of this into your spiel...
And....boom....your off and running....

Welcome and good luck...

lol I'm not going to tell the world that I'm a perma-single loser

ya kinda already have haven't ya...

No man you don't need to do that, but you do need to entice the reader to want to write to you....
A well written, clever profile will work....