Why people feel that it is always the guy`s fault for anything wrong in a relationship

Which people?

Well people like friends, family, outsiders..

Anything wrong like if a fight happens, it is the guy`s fault
if the lady cries it is guy`s fault
if trash is not disposed it is guy`s fault

WTF..always there is a guy to be blamed

Happy Wife, Happy Life..

If Big Momma is not happy,, ain't no body happy...

Get that right...happy life with no wife...

Maybe simply because most men still behave like Neanderthals in a relationship?

The saying comes to mind: If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, talks like a duck, quacks like a duck ... then it IS a duck!

Actually there's a more important thing to recognize with this question.

The problem isn't with who's right or wrong, and it's ALSO not with who's right about who's wrong.

The people who have problems with blame, are the people who are convinced that DECIDING who's right and wrong in the relationship, is what matters.

In short, you know someone really loves you, and that you really love them, when no one CARES who's right or wrong, and instead you just deal with the problems.

Exactly!
I always feel people who (still) busy themselves with "blame" and "guilt", victimize themselves.

Need more info I feel those that cry they are not at blame all the time at times are the problem.. Kind of like the boy that cries wolf too many times..

In my opinion neither is at fault all the time each situation is different..

So explain the situation you are referring too.. maybe there is a solution...

You have to put as much into a relationship that one expects to get out of it.. If you go in and do nothing then yea the blame could fall on the one that expects it all but gives nothing~~~

then you women should only marry men who like other men and not women.

It not about who is wrong or right, but the first suspect is the guy. If you guys remember my friend`s wife cheated on him. but when she cries the first question that came from her friend is "what did he do?" not "why are you crying" or "what`s wrong". Some lady missed a show and it is the guy`s fault, he didn`t drive fast or he stopped for the red lights but the reason is that she took her sweet time to get ready. Why always blaming guys?
There is also a thread here.."Why men cheat" as if women don`t..poor guys

Ugg, Crystal Fairy make sense. Ugg think, put down club. Did that once. Cave wife go get Ugg's club named Kapow. Now me cleaning cave, and she bring home brontosaurus bacon. Ugg think it strange now. Cave woman only sleep with Kapow.

Because women rule the world.

And they'll never admit they're wrong.

Okay, get out the popcorn.

Because people need stereotypes and to assign blame to someone else.

Like if anything is "wrong" with sex, it's the woman's fault.
If there's something "wrong" in the relationship, it's the guys fault.
If there's something "wrong" in government it's the opposite party's fault.
If there's something "wrong" with a kid, it's the fault of parents .
If the lawnmower is broke it's the company's fault for a defective product.

Every position, race, age, color, creed, belief, gender, whatever has blame for something apportioned to them.


It makes life easier and allows people to feel like they are more in control of their own lives if they can focus blame on something specific, external, and separate.

Although people are more complex.
So they will apportion blame to themselves if it helps them.
"Oh wow, guys are such dogs....I apologize for my gender, so see me as different than those guys, better than them, and date me."

"Oh wow, guys just want one thing...I'm so sad and lonely, but I want a real relationship...oh wow, sex was great...uh...I guess I'm not over my ex, thought I knew what I wanted, love you but not in love with you, let's be friends, but thanks for the sex, I really do want a serious relationship I swear I wasn't using you."

"Oh I am such an idiot and depressed and sad and lonely, I need someone to pat my back, love me, care for me...okay, I feel better now, you can go away, don't expect anything from me though, because I'm such an idiot and depressed and sad and lonely."

damn skippy straight

You left your sense of humor behind the fridge? I know can be hard to get sarcasm when you only got text, but dang, man!
To me it's a daft question, so you get a daft answer. Simple as that

Hang on, Motown!! ... settling in my chair ... coffee and a smoke, Oreo Mint (Yammie!!) .... let the tit for tat begin!!

Ugg, not know meaning of sarcasm, no really, hit in head too many times with Kapow...