Topic: relationship
Briandarling's photo
Tue 04/05/16 12:09 PM
Is he bad for a man to be alone because his scared of getting hurt

soufiehere's photo
Tue 04/05/16 12:47 PM

The choice is always there.
Be alone.
Or be loved.

no photo
Tue 04/05/16 01:45 PM
I was more hurt when she left with half of everything I had.

no1phD's photo
Tue 04/05/16 02:48 PM
It would be worse ..if you were with someone because you were too scared to be alone...

no photo
Tue 04/05/16 03:32 PM
Is he bad for a man to be alone because his scared of getting hurt

Maybe.

How is it effecting him?

Self destruction?
Taking it out on others?
Pursuing career, philanthropy, and social causes like volunteering because those are "safe" relationships?
Just kinda existing contentedly, not harming anyone?

Different people react in different ways when trying to avoid getting hurt.

Some are objectively and subjectively positive.

They just might not lead to the ideal of the "happy ever after" that gets pushed.

sparkyae5's photo
Wed 04/06/16 01:05 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Wed 04/06/16 01:11 PM

Is he bad for a man to be alone because his scared of getting hurt


the worst is being alone in a crowd. being alone its self is not bad when a

person has a healthy self-esteem..what's really good is when there is a healthy

esteem of others also....i see esteem for one's self and others as the number

one issue in todays world....ps love starts by also loving our-selves by being

good to our inner child....