Hi all I'm a bi curious guy, I use that term as I've only been with a lad once before and it was while I was at school over 20 years ago. Since then I've only been with girls but have recently been thinking a lot about having oral sex with another man. I'm just wondering do the gay community frown down on those of us who are curious as to wanting to get with another person of the same sex thinking we are only playing gay or do they welcome us being part of the community?

Not from what I hear.
I think they would encourage you.
Be careful. Be safe.
You will become very popular, real quick.

Thanks Sassy, that's good to hear

Hello dear Ricky, I don't think so either. Everyone wants to have the fun he likes. Is it so important to belong to a community? If you are longing to embrace the moon, do you need a community for that?
It all depends on what you think about yourself. No community is able to stop you from what you are sure to do. Are you sure you want to follow that desire? I don't think so, otherwise you wouldn't have talked about the negative thinking of others. Something is holding you back from doing what's on your mind. I hope and I pray it is God. The moment of lust is short. Peace with yourself and peace with God stays longer. I pray for you.

I can only speak from the hetero male point of view, but I can say for sure that I've known a lot of hetero guys, who MORE than welcomes the "hetero-curious" lesbians of the world.

I suspect that the thing to watch out for, in yourself as well as in general, is how you REACT to your experiences, and how you treat the people you have them with.

If, for example, you treat the people with whom you experiment, as fellow equal people with the same sensitivities as you might have, things will probably go well> But if you treat them like vending machines, there fore you to use and walk away from as you please in the moment, they are likely to take umbrage with you.