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Topic: 7 Things All Women Need In A Relationship
Alexan07's photo
Wed 06/15/16 06:04 PM
Men and women are at an
emotional stalemate.
We feel something’s lacking
in our relationships. The
majority of men aren’t able
to penetrate their women
fully, nor are women fully
opening to their men.
Women aren’t opening
because men aren’t giving
them what they need.
Women feel disappointed
and resentful; they are
suffering. When women
suffer, and they feel like they
aren’t being seen, they close
off to their men.
Fortunately, you can learn the
right tools to be able to more
fully penetrate your woman.
You can give your partner
what she needs, allowing her
to feel seen so that she will
open again.
Take the time to read
through these needs. Let
them sink in. Understanding
what you can do to help your
partner fully open will not
only improve your
relationship, but it will
improve your entire life.
Here are the seven things
that all wome want in a
relationship.

Alexan07's photo
Wed 06/15/16 06:08 PM
1. To Feel Loved
When women feel loved, they
relax and open to us. The
arguments dissipate, the sex
is abundant, and their
nurturing feminine energy
flows throughout our lives.
Not feeling loved is the
subtext of every argument
that you and your partner
have.
If she is unhappy that you
are going out with your
friends, or she’s upset about
her day at work, or she is
only responding to you with
brief snippets of sentences,
then the cause is most likely
her not feeling loved enough.
Learn to see through her
words, actions, and moods
and see what the real root of
it is.
2. To Feel Safe
There is a war being waged
on women’s self-esteem,
sexuality, and safety from a
very young age.
Because of the barrage of
disempowering messages
being sent to women
regarding their sexuality,
women need to have a safe
space where they feel that
they can trust their partners.
She wants to trust your
strength. She wants to feel
like you can handle whatever
she shows you.
She wants to feel like you will
not judge her if she asks for
something risqué. She wants
to know you won’t collapse
in defeat if she tells you to do
it “This way” instead.
By creating a safe space for
your woman to open up to
you emotionally and sexually,
you will be giving her a very
powerful gift- you allow her
to grow within your
relationship and undo old
emotional damage.
3. To Feel Seen
Women want to feel seen.
She wants to feel you
hearing her, and being
aware of her emotional state.
She doesn’t necessarily want
you to be affected by her
emotional state, but she does
want you to be witness to it.
If she is sitting across the
room from you and you
aren’t picking up on the fact
that she is suffering
emotionally and on the verge
of tears, she will begin to
trust you less. She will think,
“If he can’t see that I am
hurting now, how long will it
take him to figure it out? Will
I be suffering for days or
weeks before he is aware of
it or cares enough to help
me through this? I guess I
have to rely on myself for my
own emotional support.”
Life can seem extremely
lonely, even within a
relationship. You have to
constantly show your
partner that at least one
person will be witness to her
and her journey through life.
(Hint: that person is you.)
4. To Be Allowed To Be
Nurturing
Just as masculine energy has
the need to protect, feminine
energy has the desire to
nurture.
Women want to see the
cracks in our armour. They
want to see that we trust
them enough to open up to
them. They want to be able
to help us through our
sadness.
An integrated, evolved man
who has a balanced
masculine energy as well as
his own sliver of feminine
would welcome his woman’s
nurturing.
If you are a guy reading this,
have you ever held open a
door for a woman because
it’s the polite thing to do (but
more just because she’s a
person and it wasn’t even a
gender-based act) and she
chews your ear off for it?
“Oh what? I can’t open the
door for myself because I’m
a woman?! You sexist pig!”
That is an example of a
wounded, unbalanced
woman who doesn’t want to
accept help from a masculine
source. This is exactly how it
feels to your partner when
you push her away when
you feel the most vulnerable.
“I don’t need to lay my head
down on your chest and tell
you about my feelings
because I don’t have any!”
That is a lie. It’s a lie that
serves your purpose of not
letting your partner in. This
lack of vulnerability and
authenticity is what is
making you and your partner
suffer.
So let her in. She wants to
love you.

Alexan07's photo
Wed 06/15/16 06:12 PM
5. To Feel Sexually
Desired
What’s a major difference
between your relationship to
your partner and your
relationship to everyone else
in your life? You have sex
with your partner.
Women need to feel sexually
desired. They want to make
sure that you see and
appreciate them as a
feminine, sexual being.
Praise her body. Feel her and
grab her appreciatively.
Remind her that you see her
as a sexual being and you
will both benefit.
6. To Be Appreciated
The feminine in all people
responds primarily to praise
and appreciation.
Remind your partner that
you love her. Tell her that you
appreciate what she brings
to your life. Show her how
much she means to you.
The fastest way to run your
relationship into the ground
is by ignoring your partner
and taking her for granted.
Appreciation is the opposite
of those things. Appreciation
is the embodying this
mindset: “I am aware of
what you bring to my life,
and I want you to be sure
that I am aware of it as well.”
So tell her what you
appreciate, and tell her often.
7. To Feel Like She Can
Count On You
Life gets pretty messy
sometimes.
When life’s unavoidable
difficulties arise, do you fall
apart under pressure or are
you able to bend and not
break?
Women want to know that
we can handle ourselves
when life happens. They
want to know that we won’t
run and hide when they get
a bit ‘too emotional’ for our
liking. They want to know
that they can count on us.
When you tell your partner
you’ll do something, and
then you don’t do it, it hurts
her. She loses a piece of trust
in you that has to be earned
back. Even seemingly small
things break that trust like
you saying that you will
wash the dishes shortly after
dinner, but washing them
the next morning instead.
When enough small
transgressions like this are
sprinkled throughout your
relationship, she will distrust
you.
Do what you say you will do,
be who you say you are, and
be consistent in your actions.
What Do Women Need
In A Relationship?
Women want partners that
care.
Women don’t want perfect
partners; they want men
who are striving to be their
best selves.
She doesn’t necessarily want
someone who has every step
of his life pre-planned, but
she wants someone with
drive and with goals.
She doesn’t necessarily want
someone who cries every
day, but she does want
someone who has the
courage to cry in front of her
when he needs to.
She doesn’t necessarily want
someone who stays in
therapy for his entire life, but
she does want someone
who has the courage to face
his own emotional demons.
So put in the work. End the
stalemate. Decide that you
want to be in the kind of
relationship that most people
don’t have and you want to
put in the effort necessary to
become that kind of man.
The women of the world are
waiting for us. And they
want us to step up just as
badly as we want them to
open up.
Dedicated to your success of
ladies around the world.

no1phD's photo
Wed 06/15/16 06:23 PM
Seven things all women need in a relationship...
6 AAA Battery's..and one vibbreter..lmao...

TMommy's photo
Wed 06/15/16 06:30 PM
ya I need the cliff note version noway

no photo
Wed 06/15/16 07:01 PM
http://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/2013/12/7-things-women-need-in-a-relationship/ There ya go OP....Giving credit where its due....

Alexan07's photo
Wed 06/15/16 07:02 PM
they know wot am taking about''ladies around the world''the emotion of not being loved is killing their feels toward the partner

Alexan07's photo
Wed 06/15/16 07:07 PM
credit will always go to where it due,and nt that only also to whom makes the Awareness n share it !!

no photo
Wed 06/15/16 07:10 PM
I'm not reading all this

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Wed 06/15/16 07:47 PM
Oh please. Like some modern consulting corporation was the first to distill all the essentials of life into a few paragraphs.

The entire conceptual format of this kind of presentation, is a fundamental insult to humanity.

That is, if you think you can formulate a universal set of rules of behavior that will allow you to crank out successful romance, it can only be because you already think of people as being more like lobotomized sheep, than as human beings.

You want to know the real list of things that women (and men, for that matter) need in a relationship?

Someone who sees them as another equally valid human being, and who is willing to put the damn "expert" books down, and actually LISTEN to, and work with them as who and what they are.

no photo
Wed 06/15/16 08:01 PM
I need the cliff note version

Okay.

- There's a problem with men and women.
Relationships aren't what they could be due to an imbalance in
the cycle of synergistic reciprocation of which men and women are responsible.

In order to fix things men need to:

1. Become a mind reader, read between the lines.
Men need to work to make her feel loved by becoming her shrink.

2. Women are victims, sensitive and weak.
Men need to work to make them feel safe, become her daddy and shrink.

3. Women are attention whores.
Men need to make women the center of their universe and their thoughts at all times. Women can't heal unless a man notices that she has a problem.

4. The only real purpose women innately have is as a nurse/mother.
Men need to let women be that for him.

5. Women are sexual attention whores.
Not "I'm horny and you're available and a woman" sexual attention but "you always make me horny more than any other woman because you're better than all other women, and I can't help myself because you are so hot. I wasn't horny at all, just basking in the awesomeness of your personality and concept of your existence, but then I got horny just because of you," attention.

6. Women are insecure attention whores and victims.
Men need to worship them more so they feel less insecure and not taken for granted.

7. Women want to take for granted their "man" will live up to who she wants him to be.
Men need to be who women want him to be in order to get permission to do what she naturally wants to do.



Robxbox73's photo
Wed 06/15/16 08:05 PM
Yes can't read this and play Medal of Honor. Killing the bad guys on my Xbox.

TMommy's photo
Wed 06/15/16 08:10 PM

I need the cliff note version

Okay.

- There's a problem with men and women.
Relationships aren't what they could be due to an imbalance in
the cycle of synergistic reciprocation of which men and women are responsible.

In order to fix things men need to:

1. Become a mind reader, read between the lines.
Men need to work to make her feel loved by becoming her shrink.

2. Women are victims, sensitive and weak.
Men need to work to make them feel safe, become her daddy and shrink.

3. Women are attention whores.
Men need to make women the center of their universe and their thoughts at all times. Women can't heal unless a man notices that she has a problem.

4. The only real purpose women innately have is as a nurse/mother.
Men need to let women be that for him.

5. Women are sexual attention whores.
Not "I'm horny and you're available and a woman" sexual attention but "you always make me horny more than any other woman because you're better than all other women, and I can't help myself because you are so hot. I wasn't horny at all, just basking in the awesomeness of your personality and concept of your existence, but then I got horny just because of you," attention.

6. Women are insecure attention whores and victims.
Men need to worship them more so they feel less insecure and not taken for granted.

7. Women want to take for granted their "man" will live up to who she wants him to be.
Men need to be who women want him to be in order to get permission to do what she naturally wants to do.



blah blah women blah blah mother blah blah blah whore..got it

Robxbox73's photo
Wed 06/15/16 09:09 PM
Tell us more guy who is really from new York new York. ...

no photo
Wed 06/15/16 09:30 PM

Tell us more guy who is really from new York new York. ...


:banana:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 06/16/16 02:40 AM

Seven things all women need in a relationship...
6 AAA Battery's..and one vibbreter..lmao...

If the 6 AAA batteries and vibrator can't go out the window when in a relationship... I don't need the relationship ...

(6!!! batteries? What kind of device are we talking about here? A nuclear bomb?)

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 06/16/16 02:43 AM

Yes can't read this and play Medal of Honor. Killing the bad guys on my Xbox.

Dang, now I wanna install MoA and play, thank you! grumble
*I don't know where the CD is so I can't install & play tears *

no photo
Thu 06/16/16 10:34 AM
You mean a woman needs something more than a credit card for shopping?

Mmmmm, something doesn't seem right here...


Kathyzee's photo
Thu 06/16/16 12:23 PM

5. To Feel Sexually
Desired
What’s a major difference
between your relationship to
your partner and your
relationship to everyone else
in your life? You have sex
with your partner.
Women need to feel sexually
desired. They want to make
sure that you see and
appreciate them as a
feminine, sexual being.
Praise her body. Feel her and
grab her appreciatively.
Remind her that you see her
as a sexual being and you
will both benefit.
6. To Be Appreciated
The feminine in all people
responds primarily to praise
and appreciation.
Remind your partner that
you love her. Tell her that you
appreciate what she brings
to your life. Show her how
much she means to you.
The fastest way to run your
relationship into the ground
is by ignoring your partner
and taking her for granted.
Appreciation is the opposite
of those things. Appreciation
is the embodying this
mindset: “I am aware of
what you bring to my life,
and I want you to be sure
that I am aware of it as well.”
So tell her what you
appreciate, and tell her often.
7. To Feel Like She Can
Count On You
Life gets pretty messy
sometimes.
When life’s unavoidable
difficulties arise, do you fall
apart under pressure or are
you able to bend and not
break?
Women want to know that
we can handle ourselves
when life happens. They
want to know that we won’t
run and hide when they get
a bit ‘too emotional’ for our
liking. They want to know
that they can count on us.
When you tell your partner
you’ll do something, and
then you don’t do it, it hurts
her. She loses a piece of trust
in you that has to be earned
back. Even seemingly small
things break that trust like
you saying that you will
wash the dishes shortly after
dinner, but washing them
the next morning instead.
When enough small
transgressions like this are
sprinkled throughout your
relationship, she will distrust
you.
Do what you say you will do,
be who you say you are, and
be consistent in your actions.
What Do Women Need
In A Relationship?
Women want partners that
care.
Women don’t want perfect
partners; they want men
who are striving to be their
best selves.
She doesn’t necessarily want
someone who has every step
of his life pre-planned, but
she wants someone with
drive and with goals.
She doesn’t necessarily want
someone who cries every
day, but she does want
someone who has the
courage to cry in front of her
when he needs to.
She doesn’t necessarily want
someone who stays in
therapy for his entire life, but
she does want someone
who has the courage to face
his own emotional demons.
So put in the work. End the
stalemate. Decide that you
want to be in the kind of
relationship that most people
don’t have and you want to
put in the effort necessary to
become that kind of man.
The women of the world are
waiting for us. And they
want us to step up just as
badly as we want them to
open up.
Dedicated to your success of
ladies aroun
d the world.




Omg!!!! Ur novel put me to sleep...A big boring sleep......

no photo
Thu 06/16/16 02:53 PM
Seven things women need, all written by a man laugh

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