I greet you all comrades, I have Lived here on mingle for quite sometime,but I don't really understand the mathematics is finding someone to endlessly love and cherish.
I have tried my level best to find love here but it won't show up!
Even with honesty,still I won't get results.
I have been in the forums but finding ladies on here of my age is hilarious.
I have come across different profiles but won't get a response.
Ladies are timid making the first move but at the sametime will be unwilling to Atleast respond to a text from a guy.
Please ladies,you can't play the hard to get by responding none.
It's not easy talking to a stranger,but it's not easy for men ad well.
Is it only me that is experiencing this or?
Dear ladies,it's better you tell someone how you are not interested in them than just ignoring a text.
You lose nothing when you reply.
The struggle continues....I Will keep texting and getting nothing in return,but maybe sometime someone Will respond,it's never too late.
God bless Youuuuuuuu
#Bernard

Well, you're profile isn't bad, although I don't like the lengthy text in red at the top of your profile text.
But you show some depth and humour.

Maybe you are simply approaching the wrong women and/or in the wrong country.
Maybe Mingle isn't the right site, it isn't for me either, because most here are American, and I am in Europe. So I'm here for the forums, in my search for love I am on other, Dutch dating sites.

You seem like an intelligent man, so you got to understand that on a huge site like this, there's thousands of ppl that you normally wouldn't talk with either, nor they with you. Here online, based on nothing but a photo and some text, you may approach them, whereas in real life you never would.

ANd also bear in mind finding that one true love is like a needle in a haystack, you got to be willing to go through that haystack in order to find it.
It can be aggravating, but also good. What if each straw would be right? How would you choose? And even more so, it wouldn't be special anymore if 9 out of 10 would be a match.

So just have patience, don't be aggressive in your approach.
And you haven't been on here for quite some time. You haven't even been here for ONE month!!!
Online dating stuff is a learning curve. If your messages don't work, have a good look at what you're sending out. Is it too sexual? Do you come on too strong? Are you aiming for the wrong women (age, country, are they still active on here, whatever), are they too lengthy or too short ("Hi" or "I like your smile". I get tons of those, never reply). Read what's in their profile and say something about that in your message so the woman knows you took your time for her.
Adept the style of your messages and see what does work.

They are single, for the most part and if we can believe them, and they're passing time too.
Try to have fun here and don't charge into the fray so much. If it has to happen it will happen and most likely she's the one who'll message you.
The danger in what you're doing, messaging anybody and everybody, is that you will think you're 'in love' with her just because she answered your message in a nice way and seems to show interest.
Remember, just because she may 'feel' you're the right one for her doesn't necessarily mean she's the one for you.
Take it slow, you're young! Why the hell are you in such a hurry?

There are no words enough worth using in appreciation.....but thank Youuuuuuuu
Alooot.

dank je wel veel , je bent de beste

some of us are just passing time. I don't know about other women, but on my profile I state that I'm not looking for anyone

't is nix, mijn vriend. Mannen moet ander man veel hulp om dat vrouwen nix voor mannen te doen!