Topic: long distance relationships
alicia384's photo
Sun 07/31/16 09:22 AM
How do you deal with long distance relationship. How long should a couple date online before meet.

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sun 07/31/16 09:36 AM

How do you deal with long distance relationship. How long should a couple date online before meet.

Depends what "long distance" is.....if you are a few hours by car away then it might work out. You can always meet half way etc.
If your talking about a plane ride away...that usually won't work out and you shouldn't waste your time. JMO

babykris6c's photo
Sun 07/31/16 10:25 AM
I think you should meet immediately, ASAP if you're that interested. Some don't show what they really are online. They can easily hide. You'd begin to like them and get attached to them for what they just want you to see. Then you'd be fvcked up for seeing a different person when you meet them finally.

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Sun 07/31/16 02:15 PM
new comer

BreakingGood's photo
Sun 07/31/16 03:11 PM

I think you should meet immediately, ASAP if you're that interested. Some don't show what they really are online. They can easily hide. You'd begin to like them and get attached to them for what they just want you to see. Then you'd be fvcked up for seeing a different person when you meet them finally.


Exactly! Don't just read that. Take it to heart.

That's why I try not to meet anybody until it's TOO late for them. laugh

jazzinc's photo
Sun 07/31/16 03:55 PM
Big dilemma!. First point is to have "installed" trust, sincerity and honesty in his/ her mind about the other person. If no sure about that?....take your time is the wise advice. Both persons must be authentic and real. No less than that.

babykris6c's photo
Mon 08/01/16 09:53 AM


I think you should meet immediately, ASAP if you're that interested. Some don't show what they really are online. They can easily hide. You'd begin to like them and get attached to them for what they just want you to see. Then you'd be fvcked up for seeing a different person when you meet them finally.


Exactly! Don't just read that. Take it to heart.

That's why I try not to meet anybody until it's TOO late for them. laugh


:grin:

Lollo9746's photo
Tue 08/02/16 02:13 AM
yes i believe in relations from long distance there is skype,teamspeak etc...but i think if you havent money behind you cant travel......the ways for meet people online are always the best...for example id like a relationship far i live in italy i still havent job.....at,the end you will arrive to see your partner for the firat time after a bit of years or months...

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Tue 08/02/16 12:53 PM
less then a year

gbaie1234's photo
Tue 08/02/16 12:58 PM
I can't do long distance at all. I have my needs lol

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 08/02/16 02:42 PM
Depends on the couple and their ability to travel. I would have a very hard time with it due to my medical problems.

Blueeyed2020's photo
Tue 08/02/16 02:57 PM
Depends on the relationship. A person shouldn't waste much time online without face to face in your town contact. I would say 3 months online/phone/facetime then meet in person. In most cases they will be on their best behavior so it may take several days to week to really get to know the person and who they really are. For example, 3 day date then a 4 day date 2 months later then a week date before you see the real them.

livingsingle15's photo
Tue 08/02/16 03:01 PM
I agree, need to meet face to face ASAP. Now what did I do with my plane tickets to Ghana, so I can meet that pretty little thing that chatted me up here.

mahidixit's photo
Wed 08/03/16 10:42 AM
hy

Rooster35's photo
Wed 08/03/16 11:58 AM

How do you deal with long distance relationship?
I don't.


How long should a couple date online before meet.
As little as possible. As soon as both are sure the other is real, not a scammer or a player. One week is ideal, just time enough to make meeting plans.
Otherwise it's not serious and only a waste of time in my opinion.

pinkuprem's photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:45 PM
Can we mt

Damune19's photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:58 PM
Girl you better preach lol. Long distance is not for either.

Mohammed4life's photo
Fri 08/05/16 11:31 PM
ya just now you both decide how to meet each other's soon and never ever separate again