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Why do you think you need someone special in your life pls be honest
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For me I came out of a domestic violence situation. My two sons were my priority so they received all my attention for 12 years and I did not date. I was single for 12 years and loved it. Time to heal, time to become the person I was created to be, time to be rid of all fear and mostly time to love my boys. They have turned into wonderful young men smart, articulate, educated, motivated, living their dreams and respectful of all people especially women. With my job done and the boys living their own lives the season has changed. New season and new horizons and the thought of a partner feels right. So much I want to do and experience with a beautiful man. I love communicating with males and hearing their interpretations of things compared to women. Also that bond and touch that when given generously cannot be explained. Love is wonderful with the right person.
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I think when you need someone in your life, you're going about it the wrong way. You should get to a place where you do not need a partner and then you know you are ready for one. Then it becomes "I would like to have a partner!"
I would like to have a partner cos of the added joy, sharing, and also growing and developing as a person with and because of the other. Difficult thing is to not become dependent on what the other gives you when you are in a relationship ... A nice one I read on that -dunno who said it- was that each day when you wake up, you should feel grateful that the other person is in your life because it simply is not a given. If you can do that, you won't end up taking that person for granted. What ppl say in good, healthy relationships: you should never stop dating one another, not even after (a) decade(s). That keeps it fresh and playful and nurturing. But as soon as you need someone ... I think you're bleeped from the word go. You gotta be able to fill the voids yourself, find happiness within first before you can find it with another. |
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I have to agree with CrystalFairy, looking for someone because you feel you need someone is the wrong time to look. Looking because you would like to have a partner is the time to look. That is why I am on here looking for a partner. I think it would be nice to be able to share things with someone. Going for walks, watching fireflys in the summer evenings, sitting by a campfire on a cool fall night, watching snowfall in winter, gazing at the moon and stars on clear night, or sitting on a swing side by side cozily chatting about the day. Except for the last thing, I can do all those things by myself, however having a partner to share those things would be rather nice.
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Yes you're right, love is real wonderful when you're with the right person
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To complete who I am!
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we all want to feel connected  .....the truth is there is no way we can not be connected...... to emife500...you are already complete....if that were the case you would loose yourself,happens a lot with women in relationships  ....
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I hate being crazy alone...
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Loneliness is torture at times
It's animal instict to be pair up, some for life I'd like to be an Albatross, they pair for life Or a Swan, idly passing time with your girl on the lake, and maybe even a few little Cygnets in tow behind |
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Why do you think you need someone special in your life pls be honest This may be against the "norm" yet I don't need that life partner in my life. I wanted it yes, of course. What I have found so far in life's journey is that I am content and happy in my life. When I have that "special someone" all is enhanced... |
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I don't think we were meant to live out our lives alone. For me, having a man as my best friend would be wonderful. In addition I know a few things about myself and just wishing those thoughts away doesn't work for me. I want to be in a relationship that includes: trust, fidelity, communication, passion and worth more than anything materialistic. Men might not understand this but I would love to have a man in my bed every night. Sex would be great but there's also that wonderful feeling of knowing that the man beside you loves you and wouldn't allow anything to happen to you. He would be your man that would keep you safe. As it is now, I wake up sometimes scared of a noise and all I have is myself to be strong and brave. Thing is, I am not brave or strong. So, yes, I do need a man in my life---forever. Yeah life is more beautiful when you come a cross your soul mate honestly you feel complete |
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I have to agree with CrystalFairy, looking for someone because you feel you need someone is the wrong time to look. Looking because you would like to have a partner is the time to look. That is why I am on here looking for a partner. I think it would be nice to be able to share things with someone. Going for walks, watching fireflys in the summer evenings, sitting by a campfire on a cool fall night, watching snowfall in winter, gazing at the moon and stars on clear night, or sitting on a swing side by side cozily chatting about the day. Except for the last thing, I can do all those things by myself, however having a partner to share those things would be rather nice. Wow you really need a partner then don't worry you all gonna find one soon to go to those places you have mentioned |
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To complete who I am! So you are not yet completed? |
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I hate being crazy alone... Really? |
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That's just it, I know I don't need anyone, special or other wise in my life. I've spent 99% of of my adult life alone so I know it's possible to live without anyone, friend or lover and I'm living prof of it.
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That's just it, I know I don't need anyone, special or other wise in my life. I've spent 99% of of my adult life alone so I know it's possible to live without anyone, friend or lover and I'm living prof of it. Hmmmm if that's the case then i don't think is normal because the spcail one could be your wife life without this best friend, partner,lover and family is wordless man |
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Whats up me on 09731764134 (INDIA)
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hi im Mary i from Brazil
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Hi
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Talking to yourself makes you look like a nutcase.
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