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Topic: " Your Worst Dating Experience....Spill The Tea!"
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Tue 09/27/16 04:00 PM
Good evening my good friends of mingle2, well to be honest my last topic wasn't a hit but maybe this will change it all around. Shot's out to my Outspoken Controversial " Vocal Avengers" keep posting. Okay , let's go in on this one, Okay let me ask you this." What's your worst dating experience you ever had? I tell you mines, well I remember when I was in my mid 20's I dated this wonderful , sexy exotic woman from Russia. We went to dinner, I took her to a comedy club , and then a nice drive in the Pennsylvania rural countryside under the moon light. I mean I thought everything was great, and then it happen! As I was going to lean to give her a kiss her I run my fingers through her long blonde locks and patches of hair feel out. So I figure "okay your hair is really short, you still beautiful" she was so happy she went to hug me and two tennis balls fell out her c cups! I tell no lies...lol. by this point I'm like Oooaky, she's small , ok I can deal with that. Then I decided to hold her hand, and her fake nails fell off her fingers! By this point I'm done.....what part of her can I get out the The Gallery Mall? OMG, I had my day with dating disasters, but I'm more interested in your dating horror story. you tell , I give you my advice. Or we can just laugh about the experience. okay, can't wait to hear from you guys
later!

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Tue 09/27/16 04:13 PM
EyeAmYourHost39
, my second worst date was before I devoted my life to my heavenly father, I went to a party and I met this beautiful young lady and she approached me and we talked , shared drinks and I got baby girl number. she grabbed my hand and walked me upstairs in somebody room on the second floor, I was like okay, I'm get thanked....whooaaa!...lol we got in the room she throws me onto the bed and she removed her clothes, "OMG, if having a body was a crime ol' girl would be under the jail.....I give you a visual, okay remember in the 80's pop star Vanity? she looks similar to her. By now I'm removing my clothes until my boxers, and I pulled out a condom just right in the miss of the action, somehow, some names came up of people we knew in the area of the party and Then it happen....! What I found out with this girl blew my mind. i found out this goddess of a woman was my 3 cousin on my father side......Ill.....Yuck...just think , i almost slept with this girl my cousin.....I'm so glad we both was freaked out and put our clothes back on and let's just say we never brought this up to anyone we knew....lol

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Tue 09/27/16 04:25 PM
the one where we had dated and went to the next step and I found out he was into choke play,,and not because he told me. A very scary moment and huge turn off


the second where we talked about him the first half hour and he said he wanted to talk about me,, but preceded to ask what made me so into him,,,,,,..narcissism is another huge turnoff


the third , where I was visiting the guys house BEFORE I found out he already had a girlfriend, because she was trying to break into his house, literally, cussing him out and screaming she would kill us


,,,,,I don't know if I'm stronger but IM sure glad she didn't get the chance to kill me


lol

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Tue 09/27/16 04:45 PM
Some unique dating experiences from the internet dating sites First I met an attractive gal online and we agreed to meet at a restaurant at a specified time I did and then a woman whom I did not recognize approached me and asked if I were Michael and I said yes. She was not the woman in her profile and had chosen to use another womans photos (both were attractive) I was completely surprised and felt that her need to misrepresent herself was sufficient reason to wonder what else she might be misrepresenting so I thanked her and said I was not comfortable with a woman hiding behind anothers profile and that was that... A second one had me meet her at a restaurant after a brief exchange and was glad to do so We met and within ten minutes she took my hand and proclaimed that my life line was very short and that I would die within a year unless I was helped ! She offered to keep me alive by taking care of me as long as I bought a 50,000 life insurance policy making her the beneficiary and this was all done with great concern for my health and the necessity of keeping me alive I was touched fortunately not to the tune of a 50K scam... Third I specify HWP and met a gal who posted great photos head shots, full body shots quite well represented and attractive. We agreed to meet at a wine bar and when she approached me she was over 275 lbs I only weigh 185 and she was truly a BBW and I was so surprised at her deception not to mention morbidly obese self that I conversed with her a few minutes and then shared that I was not comfortable with gals who misrepresent themselves and did so then left.. Many are called but few are chosen so I suggest if your standards are high you might need to meet over 75 or so people for a reciprocal match ,, Of course if your standards are lower fewer people will be required.

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Tue 09/27/16 06:20 PM
I was n a blind date and we were driving through the countryside to chat and get to know each other before the dinner reservations' time, and we were getting along great when we crested a hill and saw 7 puppies playing by the road. I slowed, and they moved away, but as I picked some speed back up they ALL ran back into the road, and I could not stop. I've never felt so bad as when I had to knock on the farmhouse door and inform the lady I had hit her dogs...to which she asks which one?...and I had to say ALL of them.

Never got a second date with that one.

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Tue 09/27/16 09:03 PM
That all depends on what you consider a good date.

For example, does a good date consists of getting a second date or getting laid?

If it does then I've never had a good date.

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Wed 09/28/16 08:03 AM
she found my address without me giving to her, she texted and called 20+ times an hour while I was at work. Within 1/2 hr of getting home from work she would be sitting outside in her car without having made any type of arrangement

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Wed 09/28/16 09:39 AM
Where would I start?

The one who was a macho rugby type when we met then turned up on the date dressed from head to foot in cream - shoes, shirt and chinos - and was tight as a ducks *** moaning about the cost of the meal and ruining my appetite even though we went dutch... the one who I asked to leave after he groped me who started crying and apologising then proceeded to pin me against the wall and force a huge very painful lovebite on my neck which caused me great embarrassment at college the next day...or the one who ignored me all night and kept chatting up the barmaid..or the one who grilled me all the date like a stern job interview and then had a go at me cos I hadn't admired his fantastic car which was like a plane with flashing lights all over the dashboard which wasn't even HIS car he borrowed it from work!!!

Phew no wonder I'm scared of dating now I'm single again laugh

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Wed 09/28/16 01:41 PM
Ms Harmony,

hey my favorite one on here whhhaattatt! oh no , he was too violent, intimacy supposed to be good not hurt . you did the right thing leaving him alone good looks on that one!

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Wed 09/28/16 01:45 PM
Sybariticguy,

Oh my God! you poor man....I'm glad you recognized a scam and you right there are scams that may this experience a bad rap .....good for you buddy....words of wisdom whatch that! if they ask for money, or if there pics and profile isn't honest, then run! run! and don't look back ....good for you smart man!

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Wed 09/28/16 01:48 PM
DNHBlue,

well a second date? lol

if it gets to sex well......don't be quick to lay? you might get to the center of someone's tootsie pop.....think about that term!

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Wed 09/28/16 02:18 PM
Scarecrow060972

wow! Igood for you for doing what you though was right.......

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Wed 09/28/16 03:13 PM
.. my worst experience..
She left me alone so I can play with myself.. I mean!!.. by myself....
I have never felt so alone..
Well !!..there is that time that grandma left me at the Walmart store I felt pretty alone then...

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Wed 09/28/16 03:37 PM
BillyJames39

wow Billy Boy you so true.......one thing I can't stand is a stalker or a Nag! let me repeat again a Nag!......


did that work out for you afterwards?

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Wed 09/28/16 03:54 PM
Madcatlady01


oh wow! a woman's perspective....I'm sold tell me did that work out in your favor?

I like the fact you & the date went Dutch. see in spite my image, I am easy date I'm totally workable to share expenses. as fars as him groping you , listen no man have a right to touch in a manner that's out of line. I don't know you very well but I think you too good for him , you don't need a holes like him pardon my French.

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Wed 09/28/16 04:08 PM
Greeneyes148


oh that's just not good.....throwing up....no we can't have that huh?

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Wed 09/28/16 08:34 PM

DNHBlue,

well a second date? lol

if it gets to sex well......don't be quick to lay? you might get to the center of someone's tootsie pop.....think about that term!

I excepted a long time ago that the only way I get a hot girl in the bed room would be if I payed for it. Then I spent a week in Thailand and decided to give up on it all together (some of the guys I went there with warned me about the "tootsie pop" as you put it).

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Wed 09/28/16 11:38 PM
" Your Worst Dating Experience....Spill The Tea!"

The worst dating experiences I think of anymore are those I look back on and wonder what was wrong with me.

Those where I behaved apathetically, felt anhedonic, even though I was aware they were attractive, nice, and they seemed to like me and excited to date me, where they actually tried.


The dates where they do/are something I think is "bad" at least give me a story I can laugh at later or use to commiserate over and bond with friends, a shared experience.

Dates where we fight, or passively aggressively act huffy or aloof, or they just aren't interested, I can see them as human beings, peers. We're just incompatible.

Dates where they tell me they want a sugar daddy but have a boyfriend, or they live with their husband as well as another ex boyfriend because they can't afford a divorce and needed a tenant to afford their house, they still chose me to go out with even though they had alternatives, I had something they didn't have yet wanted, even if it was vague potential.

Positive or negative there is some kind of emotional attachment or identification with, value and purpose.

But for some there is nothing. They just aren't really people. More like cardboard cutouts to me and I responded to them as such, and I can't even remember their names or what they looked like, only that I showed up, some unremarkable things happened, and then I left.

Those are the worst. I experienced nothing from them. I learned nothing from them. I neither obtained nor provided anything positive or negative from the date. Neither the date, nor they, had any value whatsoever. And if that's what I felt they offered or were, then that is ultimately how I treated them. Not by acting happy, not by being mad or inappropriate, just like I didn't care and was putting my time in until it was over.

Those are what I see as the worst date experiences, anymore.

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Thu 09/29/16 12:06 AM

" Your Worst Dating Experience....Spill The Tea!"

The worst dating experiences I think of anymore are those I look back on and wonder what was wrong with me.

Those where I behaved apathetically, felt anhedonic, even though I was aware they were attractive, nice, and they seemed to like me and excited to date me, where they actually tried.


The dates where they do/are something I think is "bad" at least give me a story I can laugh at later or use to commiserate over and bond with friends, a shared experience.

Dates where we fight, or passively aggressively act huffy or aloof, or they just aren't interested, I can see them as human beings, peers. We're just incompatible.

Dates where they tell me they want a sugar daddy but have a boyfriend, or they live with their husband as well as another ex boyfriend because they can't afford a divorce and needed a tenant to afford their house, they still chose me to go out with even though they had alternatives, I had something they didn't have yet wanted, even if it was vague potential.

Positive or negative there is some kind of emotional attachment or identification with, value and purpose.

But for some there is nothing. They just aren't really people. More like cardboard cutouts to me and I responded to them as such, and I can't even remember their names or what they looked like, only that I showed up, some unremarkable things happened, and then I left.

Those are the worst. I experienced nothing from them. I learned nothing from them. I neither obtained nor provided anything positive or negative from the date. Neither the date, nor they, had any value whatsoever. And if that's what I felt they offered or were, then that is ultimately how I treated them. Not by acting happy, not by being mad or inappropriate, just like I didn't care and was putting my time in until it was over.

Those are what I see as the worst date experiences, anymore.


I like what you wrote there. It's true that those 'disastrous' dates we chuckle about afforded us a story to tell, an experience to smile about and share as an anecdote. Indeed the worst dates are the ones so lacking lustre we can't even remember their names or a snippet of the tedious conversation :)

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Thu 09/29/16 08:43 AM
MadCatLady01

you are so right, I guess if it wasn't for the bad ones then we couldn't improve with the good ones.

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