Topic: Mutual Match question
Katfromdaup's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:09 PM
im a little confused...whats the point of having a "mutual match" if nobody talks to you from there???? and why is the guy only allowed to determine first if they would like you first, than us woman make the final decision with yes, maybe, or no???

PJ1987's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:10 PM
when we figure that out it will be a great day, lol.laugh

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:11 PM
It could go both way's but who knows.

MiSSLiNDS's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:11 PM
iT'S NOT THE MAN THAT GETS TO CHOOSE FiRST.. iT'S BASED ON YOUR SET PREFERENCES. THOSE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT POP UP..

i DON'T KNOW WHY THEY NEVER WRiTE THOUGH..

andrewzooms's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:13 PM
Yeah I have 8 and only one on my friends list

Katfromdaup's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:14 PM
oh cause sometimes when i look at my mutual matches it will give me 2 ppl and than say i have no more matches at that time, but if i say yes or maybe to a guy, they show up on my list right away as mutual match, so i figured that they said yes or maybe first. weird

andrewzooms's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:16 PM
If you hit maybe it will come up as a match.

no photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:18 PM
i have 16 an still haven't meet one yet, and they are all pretty. i wish one of them would let me know if they are really interested.lol. hehehehehehehehehehhahahahahahhehehehehe.

snowflake457's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:20 PM
It is kinda strange I have very specific preferences and it gives me people that are not within those guidelines. Who knows lol

Katfromdaup's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:21 PM
i think im going to email everyone on my list just to see whats up...lol wish me luck!

purplecat's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:21 PM
I have not touched or looked at the mutual match thinger....
I'm hoping if some one is interested enough they will contact ME..shy old fashioned ..donno...but I'm to shy to be the one to make the first move.......noway blushing

Katfromdaup's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:28 PM
well good luck with that. sometimes you have to speak up to get noticeddevil

andrewzooms's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:34 PM
Email me

Katfromdaup's photo
Sun 11/11/07 07:35 PM
i would if u showed up on my list....but i suppose i can...if you really want me to..lol

bluebell's photo
Mon 11/12/07 02:08 PM
kat it works that way sometimes i have mutual matches that i have sent emails to that dont reply so i just let it be, would be nice tho to hear from the ones that are interested