Topic: I lost hope with the right woman..
Mike6615's photo
Mon 11/07/16 06:49 PM

Don't expect to get an answer immediately. Sometimes you must do a little waiting.


...And sometimes a little wailing.

Boby1983's photo
Thu 11/10/16 06:14 AM
Hi

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Thu 11/10/16 06:14 AM
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Thu 11/10/16 09:19 AM
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Wed 11/16/16 06:03 PM


Don't expect to get an answer immediately. Sometimes you must do a little waiting.


...And sometimes a little wailing.



Sometimes a little wailing while waiting... And waiting... And waiting...

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Wed 11/16/16 07:06 PM



Don't expect to get an answer immediately. Sometimes you must do a little waiting.



...And sometimes a little wailing.



Sometimes a little wailing while waiting... And waiting... And waiting...

I love this one tooo....laugh

monsteralt's photo
Wed 11/16/16 11:58 PM
try to add add some humor in conversation..try to be funny and silly,it will turn them on. bt if ur humor is too much, becareful my friend...so saying "hi" is like ur in a barren place with her.

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Thu 11/17/16 03:50 PM
You know what they always say on dating sites...

"No response, is a response"


Just move on.

Rebelredneck59 's photo
Sat 11/19/16 01:15 AM
How about if you give a guy your cell phone number and he doesn't text you back. Sometimes you have to look at the big picture and from both sides. Or say the woman replies and the man never replies back or takes forever to reply... is it fair to the woman to wait?

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Sat 11/19/16 01:24 AM
Yes I definitely agree with this, a lot of times I will read the man's profile before replying to him. If he doesn't have much on his profile or it looks like a script or 'fake' then I don't reply. And read her profile and comment on something from her profile. I get so many men who don't say much or think that they can woo me with sweet words of compliments. I would much rather them read my whole profile and comment on something in my profile. And men... the more you put on your profile and more specifically more pictures but WITHOUT SUNGLASSES! the better your chances are with a woman. Just saying my opinion from experience on a lot of dating sites!

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Fri 12/02/16 04:04 AM
I really hope it's not too late! Love is just a clap away!

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 12/02/16 04:55 AM
Edited by Dodo_David on Fri 12/02/16 04:55 AM

I really hope it's not too late! Love is just a clap away!


From the Internet: "Why Is Gonorrhea Called The Clap?"

Click on the above hyperlink to learn why.

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Sat 12/03/16 09:08 PM

Asking questions keep the conversation going.

Good luck! happy



Here is something that I've noticed about the great majority of women on dating sites. They never seem to want to ask a man anything about himself. The man has to ask everything about the woman. If he doesn't, he's not showing enough interest. For anyone to have a conversation with another person, there has to be a give and take between them.

One cannot carry the whole conversation by themselves. It would absolutely thrill me for a woman to ask me about myself in conversation. But, in the past 11 years that I've been doing this online thing, I would say that 98% of women never ask me about myself. I find it odd that they go out with me, but never ask anything about me. I find it odd that if I didn't just come out and start telling about myself, they would never know about anything concerning me.

But, if I'm not constantly asking about every aspect of their lives, they think I'm not interested. Shouldn't it work both ways?



samatvam's photo
Sun 12/04/16 08:14 AM
I agree with that! It's interestening why many young men send messages for mature women who are at least twice older? I also never respond.I already have two adult kids :))

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Sun 12/04/16 08:37 AM
Edited by samatvam on Sun 12/04/16 08:37 AM
I have no interest in a guy in his 20's. You don't have to send me a nudge or friends request. If you're in your 30's, maybe I don't like you or you are too young.

 Maria195's photo
Sun 12/04/16 09:32 AM

Is it really difficult to have a little conversations here? I still don't know why most of women don't wanna text back when someone say "hi", i think its called a prejudgment right!??


Maybe she's not interested. Welcome and good luck.

Mike6615's photo
Sun 12/04/16 09:54 AM
I agree that an interesting, question-oriented email is important, but it seems as if many guys here are doing just that and STILL getting no responses. A lot of work.

Kind of like writing a specific, exciting resume and cover letter to 50 or more prospective employers and not even getting an acknowledgement of it. Discouraging? Yes. But this may have to be accepted for online dating vs. the real world.

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Sun 12/04/16 10:25 AM
I don't think that is true. 5 out of 5, I would give 4'things In enjoy or do. Then ask the generic question "do you enjoy any of these activities?" Then ask individual questions about them, then with a total of say 5 or 6 questions a typical answer would be I'm not sure... Or answer one ? With "yeah I like ****"
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I swear everyone I've corresponded with needs a membership to Toastmasters International!!!!
It's either that or it's some young babe that looks like a high dollar hooker trying to get my credit card #, gives me a supposed legit email address, which then redirects me to some "hockey milf's" website!
Or yohe


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Sun 12/04/16 10:27 AM

Actually its a demonstration of one simply choosing their own personal preferences and does not reflect on any specific person as each person is free to have their own preferences as well. Being able to accept others preferences is a needed sign of maturity if one wants to be on a dating site and accept the fact that each is allowed and not obligated to respond to anyone at anytime...

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Sun 12/04/16 10:33 AM
Oh perfect! Especially respect their preference to redirect you to a porn, MILF, Or cheating Wives web site that want your credit card #. Absolutely respect their preference to act like a Gold Digging Hooker.
Ya know! It's a preference! Gotta respect that! Right?