its hard for me to find love and at this point i am in desperation mode and to the point where if i see a couple kissing and being affectionate in public i am happy for them but hate them for the fact they have something i dont please someone help me

Desperation is not attractive... Help you with what?

Here she is:



Good luck!

I was age 34 when I met my late wife. So, you still have plenty of time to find love.

Love yourself first and foremost.

If you don't love you how can you expect anyone else to?



Psychologists specialize in that. There are also groups and seminars that boost self-esteem.

Your wording makes me think you are lonely. Being alone is not the same as loneliness. Loneliness is a form of depression. Psychiatrists might be able to help with your depression by prescribing certain drugs that can correct chemical imbalances.

There is your problem. You say you are "desperate", no woman finds that attractive. You need to be strong and confident in yourself first. Work on you and love will find you.

Awwwww..chit happens.
Never envy another though, go get your own..they
are ..somewhere..if your heart is really open.

tom4uhere gave the best advice i think so far...
It really sounds like you are depressed and need to deal with that first.
Don't stress out about things it will just make you more depressed.
Take some time for yourself.
Some of the others had good advice too, that is to learn to love yourself first and build your confidence.
I am working on those things too. You are not alone. Depression takes time to recover from and can't be rushed out of.
if you need a friend to talk to i can listen...as my profile says, i am just looking for friends, plutonic relationships and no more. so no worries.

Always makes me smile, advice about love and relationships from single people.

Take it easy mate.

Me too

Just goes to show that people do still learn from mistakes.

Yes, your profile and intellectual topics prove as much, well done you.

Let's chat privately plsss

Let's chat privately plsss

love yourself first

Let me help you with that...

hi

hi

I so understand. It's hard to find someone who you can relate too, doesn't live in another country, who is honest (a lot of jerks) and is realy looking for a longterm relationship!!

thank you you are the first to read the message for what it is and not nitpick specific parts