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Topic: Delusions and Reality: A Comparison
Tom4Uhere's photo
Fri 01/27/17 07:39 AM
full of Fakes, Confusion, Immorality & lots of Delusions

Understanding those encounters brings us enlightenment. That enlightenment helps us to function in the delusion we commonly refer to as "Life".
Life is just life, being alive.
How we perceive life is based on the realities we encounter and the delusions we adopt to deal with those realities.

You may see yourself or others as Stubborn, Selfish, Self-Destructive conformists existing in a Self-Congratulatory Delusion but that is your definition. If that were a reality, then everyone would see it the same.
Just because others may see the same does not mean it is real. It merely means they agree with your assessment. Personally, I don't see myself or others in that manner, not anymore.

What I see in myself and others is confusion concerning reality. Based mostly on inaccurate conditioning from accepting delusional reasoning to justify the realities we encounter from experience. Not a bad thing, just mixed up.

mysticalview21's photo
Sat 01/28/17 10:54 AM
I have been delusional ... but I believe I wanted that to remain in my thoughts becouse of the good feeling it gave me ... but them that bubble burst and I moved on ... and then that bubble burst and I moved on and then that bubble burst and I moved on ... laugh but we can be delusional on here with some ... becouse it is not like being in person with them ...sometimes like one with a few different personality's... that has been proven as a fact more then not ... I would say & have seen ... with experience... about the the web...
there are many reason some or all can be deluded on here by anyone ...

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 01/28/17 11:18 AM

I have been delusional ... but I believe I wanted that to remain in my thoughts becouse of the good feeling it gave me ... but them that bubble burst and I moved on ... and then that bubble burst and I moved on and then that bubble burst and I moved on ... laugh but we can be delusional on here with some ... becouse it is not like being in person with them ...sometimes like one with a few different personality's... that has been proven as a fact more then not ... I would say & have seen ... with experience... about the the web...
there are many reason some or all can be deluded on here by anyone ...

Sure, You should conduct yourself as you see fit - after all it is your life you are living.

In the past I have had many online personalities. I even went horror on a horror community. It was all an act I did for entertainment. People in those different online communities liked those different personalities.

This is a site that is here to help people find other people to share real life together. On here I think it is more important to honestly be who you actually are in life than a personality for entertainment. Mainly because I hope to actually meet and possibly fall in love with one of these wonderful women. Thus, being able to relate who I am, how I think and what concerns me is important in honestly presenting myself to those prospects.
The Real Me as honestly as I can communicate it. That way when we finally Do Meet there is no misconceptions.

Part of my being able to effectively represent myself to others requires that I understand my delusions and the reality that I live. In the past, my delusions got in the way of me understanding myself. I did things for the wrong reasons. Those often yielded results that were not what I intended. By removing most of those self-induced delusions and really examining the reality around me I am better able to be who I want to be. I have more control over the feelings I express to others. I can accept their expressions more concisely. I can also see thru their bull a bit easier.

If I were here for entertainment I would probably have a different personality but I am on here for a real reason seeking a real person. There are much better online communities for acting a part. You can be a player or you can be yourself. I just happen to choose to be myself here.

mysticalview21's photo
Sat 01/28/17 12:04 PM


I have been delusional ... but I believe I wanted that to remain in my thoughts becouse of the good feeling it gave me ... but them that bubble burst and I moved on ... and then that bubble burst and I moved on and then that bubble burst and I moved on ... laugh but we can be delusional on here with some ... becouse it is not like being in person with them ...sometimes like one with a few different personality's... that has been proven as a fact more then not ... I would say & have seen ... with experience... about the the web...
there are many reason some or all can be deluded on here by anyone ...

Sure, You should conduct yourself as you see fit - after all it is your life you are living.

In the past I have had many online personalities. I even went horror on a horror community. It was all an act I did for entertainment. People in those different online communities liked those different personalities.

This is a site that is here to help people find other people to share real life together. On here I think it is more important to honestly be who you actually are in life than a personality for entertainment. Mainly because I hope to actually meet and possibly fall in love with one of these wonderful women. Thus, being able to relate who I am, how I think and what concerns me is important in honestly presenting myself to those prospects.
The Real Me as honestly as I can communicate it. That way when we finally Do Meet there is no misconceptions.

Part of my being able to effectively represent myself to others requires that I understand my delusions and the reality that I live. In the past, my delusions got in the way of me understanding myself. I did things for the wrong reasons. Those often yielded results that were not what I intended. By removing most of those self-induced delusions and really examining the reality around me I am better able to be who I want to be. I have more control over the feelings I express to others. I can accept their expressions more concisely. I can also see thru their bull a bit easier.

If I were here for entertainment I would probably have a different personality but I am on here for a real reason seeking a real person. There are much better online communities for acting a part. You can be a player or you can be yourself. I just happen to choose to be myself here.






I understand what you are saying ... and sometimes I can be brutality honest ... but do not mean to come off that way ... I believe their are many on this site ... that I would consider going out with ... but seems most are LD and I am not up with that... but having fun in the forums like we do ... does not mean we are all fakes ... and do not hold our selves like players ... and absolutely ...my life is what I make of it ... under my circumstances ...+ I am not here to make every one love or even like me ... just here like the rest of us ... that does not count the fakes ... one bit ...

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Sat 01/28/17 12:13 PM
I choose not to be deluded anymore. :non-potable_water:

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 01/28/17 12:15 PM

I choose not to be deluded anymore. :non-potable_water:

Me Too!drinker

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 01/28/17 12:27 PM



I have been delusional ... but I believe I wanted that to remain in my thoughts becouse of the good feeling it gave me ... but them that bubble burst and I moved on ... and then that bubble burst and I moved on and then that bubble burst and I moved on ... laugh but we can be delusional on here with some ... becouse it is not like being in person with them ...sometimes like one with a few different personality's... that has been proven as a fact more then not ... I would say & have seen ... with experience... about the the web...
there are many reason some or all can be deluded on here by anyone ...

Sure, You should conduct yourself as you see fit - after all it is your life you are living.

In the past I have had many online personalities. I even went horror on a horror community. It was all an act I did for entertainment. People in those different online communities liked those different personalities.

This is a site that is here to help people find other people to share real life together. On here I think it is more important to honestly be who you actually are in life than a personality for entertainment. Mainly because I hope to actually meet and possibly fall in love with one of these wonderful women. Thus, being able to relate who I am, how I think and what concerns me is important in honestly presenting myself to those prospects.
The Real Me as honestly as I can communicate it. That way when we finally Do Meet there is no misconceptions.

Part of my being able to effectively represent myself to others requires that I understand my delusions and the reality that I live. In the past, my delusions got in the way of me understanding myself. I did things for the wrong reasons. Those often yielded results that were not what I intended. By removing most of those self-induced delusions and really examining the reality around me I am better able to be who I want to be. I have more control over the feelings I express to others. I can accept their expressions more concisely. I can also see thru their bull a bit easier.

If I were here for entertainment I would probably have a different personality but I am on here for a real reason seeking a real person. There are much better online communities for acting a part. You can be a player or you can be yourself. I just happen to choose to be myself here.

I understand what you are saying ... and sometimes I can be brutality honest ... but do not mean to come off that way ... I believe their are many on this site ... that I would consider going out with ... but seems most are LD and I am not up with that... but having fun in the forums like we do ... does not mean we are all fakes ... and do not hold our selves like players ... and absolutely ...my life is what I make of it ... under my circumstances ...+ I am not here to make every one love or even like me ... just here like the rest of us ... that does not count the fakes ... one bit ...

mysticalview21, I wasn't implying you were a player. I try to express myself in generalities. I know that one shoe doesn't fit all feet. It is the concept of replies that I comment on unless a personal reply is needed. When I write, it doesn't mean that I am singling out a person but merely that I have something to say on the topic of the quote. If I have something to say explicitly to the person, I usually paste their screenname at the beginning.
In this case I am responding to your reply for fear that you took what I wrote wrong. No worries.

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