I just couldn't help myself, I did another reading. It's so much fun to do!
And since a few asked for it, I'm posting it here, also cos I feel it ties into what's important for singles looking for love.
This reading is on "where are you concerning self-love?".

I think many overlook or underestimate the importance of self-love, especially when it comes to finding the love of their life.
Love of Self is vitally important if you want to be able to have healthy (love) relationships.

Simply put:
if you depend on others for your happiness, you are powerless since you have no control over other people or situations. They cannot always be there for you to make you feel good, they have bad hair-days too, which would then mean you feel crap as well. Not a great place to be in life!
That's why it is so important to love yourself, because then you DO have control over how you feel. Then you have power, and inner strength, which will make your life a helluva lot nicer!
Knowing where you are concerning self-love can thus help your love life as well, and furthermore increase your overall sense of happiness in life.

Again, totally free, I have nothing to sell, I just love sharing with others.

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Thank you
You really do have to love yourself !

Self-Love is a form of self-esteem.
Healthy self-esteem takes a hit when our relationships fail.
When we become dependent on others for our contentment we set ourselves up for failure because others don't have all the information or the will to dictate what's best for our lives.

Many people are too hard on themselves for the mistakes they make.
Wisdom is gained by both good and bad decisions. Too many people only see the negative in their lives. When you expect negative things to happen, you're focused on negative things. You mainly only see negativity.

When you change your thinking and learn how to love yourself and love the life you have, it shifts the anticipation from negative to positive. You start noticing positive things in yourself and life in general. The negative stuff is still there but now you are thinking positively so they don't have the impact on your contentment that destroys your self-esteem.

This is a powerful reading, Crystal. I only wish I could give it a giant thumbs up. Too many people, way too many exist in negative anticipation which causes a multitude of personal and societal problems. Negativity reinforces negativity. Its self-sustaining.
All that is needed to fix it is a different mind-set and the ability to forgive yourself.

Hi Crystal...i picked the key, and was quite surprised at
the reading...i just paid my house off and am planning to
sell out and move somewhere totally new, i only know i want
to live near water...so, reference of choices to come was as
you might say "spot on"....thanks

now i'll go back and enjoy listening to you give the other three..

Crystal,
I really, really like the direction of this reading.
It focuses on something that needs to be perpetuated to all people.
Another concept that needs to be explored is instant self-gratification and the ability to be patient and work towards the things important to us. Too often, we shoot ourselves in the foot when trying to realize our desires.

Another concept is the ability to accept others as they are.
Realizing that we don't have all the information or experiences to actually see thru another's eyes. That its okay for them to be different.

I've a feeling your channel will soon be one of my cherished subscriptions on youtube. I know some people on other sites that could benefit from your readings. I will link them, if its okay with you?

If I may quote Britney Spears..
" oops I Did It Again "..practice self-love while reading this topic..lol...Ohhh great now my keyboards all sticky...lmao.

Ok, This is great. I'm just through what appeals to me, and I must say, all of them in this order.

1. Feather

2. Key

3. Coral

4. Knight (chess piece)

As I looked, it was drawn towards the feather, then the key and I liked that object a while before I started looking below. I think I noticed the coral first but was quickly drawn to the other item trying to determine what the image was. So I was .. indifferent?.. about the two?

Anyway, once I found out what each was, ..(because I couldn't tell that was coral either)... lol, both had a meaning to me.

I stopped there because I'm not sure I want to know.

Hey, I got some other thing's that need done,... let me go see on those.

yeah

Thank you, Tom, and yes, please link them if you want! And I feel flattered that mine may become your fave channel :)
I will get a few more readings out real soon, as I'm really in the flow at the moment. But I have to do it during the day as I haven't got proper light to record one in the evening.
May I invite you to subscribe, as I'm not sure whether David is okay with me posting links here all the time, hihi.

Wow! Unreal. Thank you for your feedback! And good luck finding the new home that feels good to you!

I'd have thought you would've invested in a keyboard with a plastic cover by now? Maybe clingfilming it is a smart move. And no, not it, the keyboard!

Can happen that you need two messages. I had the exact same thing this afternoon with my daughter in-law. She couldn't choose between the key and the coral, so I read them both for her, and turned out both messages resonated really well.
When I watch pick a card readings I sometimes choose 2 as well. When it's more I feel drawn to, like 3 out of 4 or, I take it as a message that maybe I should come back later. Can mean that you aren't in touch with your intuition or not ready for the message or whatever. Can happen.