Does looking for a father figure count ?

not so old not so young for me

Well Sceptical, it does happen, after that it´s all down to expectations

I have never dated older or even my age usually the men that I date are about 10 years younger.

It's true, some people are old at 35 some are young at 65. It's attitude and state of mind. Hopefully, some who think "Old" is 45 will live to be that age themselves.

That's right, and what a wake up call for them...Hehe.
But I guess in the western world, experience and knowledge doesn't count anymore.

And, as you said, a person is only as old as her/his attitude.
I will however add, that a person at their 40's, 50's or whatever, acting like they're 20 comes across a bit ridiculous.
Well at least in my world. That doesn't mean or imply in any way or form having no humour or being able to be playful would be inappropriate.

It all depends on how it is served, otherwise one could be concieved as being somewhat a nutcase and/or having a problematic personality as not having developed into maturity. And maturity we all want no matter age.

Everything can and will be fun with a sense of responsability after all.
It's not nice to look at any age having a good time in a bar or any public place ending up vomitting all over the place as a 14 year old.
neither men nor women at any age.

So far I've only dated my age or older. I've gone out with younger girls, but meh. No thanks.

Probably, but you're just a kid to a tubby 70 year old.