I guess...
But, I'm not rejecting them....I've never even chatted with them...or messaged them..
They send me the nasties spontaneously/ out of the blue.

I don't get it....
You don't like my profile, or my pictures...go on to the next one..
Don't send a nasty, hateful message...

Bluegrass, I remember something that happened to me a while back. Guys told me that I'm a fake and I should leave this site. Huh??

that is very sad and disappointing to hear bluegrass... have you noticed any pattern .,is it a certain age group/culture or just random men in general . Clearly they are bored and lacking in social skills .. do not give them any power . They are not worth any of your time !!!!! Trying to understand their behaviour .

"have you noticed any pattern .,is it a certain age group/culture"

Not really.

"or just random men in general"

Pretty much.

I saved screen shots of some of them, because people don't believe this stuff happens...

I believe you ... but keeping screenshots sounds like a cruel torture. Their words only have powerif you let them .

No, it's lots of fun when the sorry ba****ds message you again (different profile, same pics), and you say "we've already done this...and you were rude"...then they play all innocent, and swear they've never message you..then you show them the screen shot.....
Oopsie..

very well put. It's still inexcusable though. just block them without reading. perhaps they will grow up one day.

Yeah, I hate to say this but sometimes others of my gender embarrass us all.
But don't think it's just men, I like to play with the scammer chicks here and when I finally tell them I knew they were scammers all along you should see some of the things they write, hateful doesn't cover it!

As people seem fond of saying when asked why they stick around dating site forums with no intention of dating; "it's a social site!"

A profile is not private space or private property.
It's a publicly made statement, a personal opinion of self made in a public setting.

Just by the sake of it existing, it can/will elicit a response, a comment.

A profile is really no different than posting a thread in the forums.

Sometimes you don't get the response you want, expect, or is in any way relevant to the intent which motivated posting it in the first place.


What's the point to this thread?
Were you expecting an answer you couldn't figure out yourself?


"I like turtles."
"...here's a bunny with a pancake on its head."
blah blah "honeybadger."
People respond in all sorts of ways just to respond because they feel like it.

The only way to guarantee people keep their opinions to themselves is to not give people anything with which to opine.

They crave attention of the wrong kind. They may need to feel their existence using the wrong way as the right one might be too hard for them.

RIGHT??

And those who do this *always* yammer on about how they are such a "nice guy/ good guy"....
Really?

did you respond with that signature laugh ..
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha....

Cat, you are the type who brushes her hair on the morning dew drop, it's rare
(my opinion based on your previous posts)

To the red apples you are an elusive idea.

In my previous post, i may have appeared forward so to make amends here are some suggestions (observations & experience) for ladies who have lost touch with the nasty real world.




Research shows women speak 3 times more than men;
yes, their temporal lobes are larger than men's.

What does this mean?
There are some nice ladies, pretty in their pictures but from a man's view their profile description is lengthy and travels in many directions. For example, if you are looking for a man as a replacement for your Ex then you are treating man as a spare tire.

Now, as rightly pointed out 'move on' - sure. But clean shaven men past their prime years once full of deeds now turned to weeds - after reading through the obstacle course, may feel an internal collapse; i.e., fragile ego gets confused and sometimes vengeful.

This is an example of the many linear ways men think.

--xx--

How to stop their rant?

Easy, use Smileys more abundantly.

Huh?

I say things in fun, not to be hateful..

Who really knows Bluegrass
They're just trolls.
Sad pathetic people who get their kicks that way, because they can't get them any other way
Plus you seem like a strong lady.
Some people don't like that

I see this a lot at various places. Mostly to me it seems to be the younger crowd that does this but it's not just limited to them. Seems there are asshats everywhere, the anonymity of the internet makes them bold.

What you would never hear face to face somehow becomes acceptable. Like they never learned manners or how to deal with people socially. I guess some just don't care and feed on the negative responses to gauge how upset they made someone and take delight from that.

When it's the typical of some guy dumping on a woman, I've always wondered why? Other than the trolling behaviour, what do they expect to get out of it? They are surely not going for impressing a woman.

It seems to have no other purpose than to drive women away from contact with men. Sure makes the ladies mighty leery when you approach one out of the blue. Most ladies have already had contact with some idiot like the ones talked about here. They are on the lookout for the next idiot in line. It's far worse than it used to be.

I guess some people got nothing else to do.

People write hateful things because their not happy with their own life, so this makes them feel better.