Topic: Getting a response
Jerm's photo
Thu 03/21/19 10:10 PM
Edited by Jerm on Thu 03/21/19 10:10 PM
So I am curious to know what male and female inquiries have elicited the most positive responses?

Men: What have you started with that got a response? What inquiries got a response from you?

Ladies: What are some clever starters that you found yourself responding too? IF you initiated a conversation what was your starter?

Asking for a friend, not for me who is on a few dating sites and trying to figure out how all this works

Rock's photo
Thu 03/21/19 10:36 PM
I generally charge a fee, to participate in research.

Best of luck.

Jerm's photo
Fri 03/22/19 02:28 AM
Edited by Jerm on Fri 03/22/19 02:31 AM
that's very true, but since this isn't going to be published in a scholarly journal maybe you could help a brother out?

no photo
Fri 03/22/19 06:51 AM
For myself, what usually got things started conversation wise. Reading profiles, and taking the time to think about what I read, that may interest me and going from that.

With that said, it can be a lot of hit or miss.

no photo
Fri 03/22/19 04:45 PM
To start, I'm not a 30 or 40 something person. I'm 50 and over, but there are some things that apply here. Indicate that you read the profile. Talk about a mutual interest.

no photo
Tue 03/26/19 05:47 PM
Something clever which at the same time shows you actually read about them first. Funny is always good, just be sure it's funny..

I had a guy just send a message that said "mommy?" What the heck is that supposed to mean?