How to increase the message limits

wait for them to reply

i think that is what you are talking about , you sent them a bunch of emails and they have not responded back yet

its to help cut down the chance of bots getting in here and causing all kinds of unwanted gifts

Why did I encounter an email limit?
'We had to place a limit on first-contact emails because
of spammers. Basically, this cuts down the number of
first-contact emails that one can send within a
two-to-three-day period (we can't divulge anymore
information about this limit). However, a member
affected by this limit will still be able to send an
unlimited number of emails to those with whom he or
she has already had some back-and-forth. It should
be noted that MinglePlus members are exempt.'
http://mingle2.com/welcome/faq_message

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