Man I was at a pool alone with this big boobed chick once and all of a sudden her top flew off!! Was that some kind of "sexual harassment"?? The uh "extreme physical harassment" went on for months day and night!! When is sexual harassment going to become normal and fun again? I've never met a red blooded American male that has any kind of problem with it.

Because men are always the bad guys. More than once I have been made feel so uncomfortable at jobs for not succumbing to sexual advances. I just quit the jobs. So, the posters earlier running men down, think before you post!

Have you seen Jennifer Aniston in the movie "Horrible bosses"?

I quit too, on the exact day I get sexually harassed. I just can't be bothered working for lowlife bosses.
That makes a statement and I am sure they live in fear that I will take them to court.
Maybe they will have more self control with the next employee when they are left with noone to work the next day for them.

lol...spot on!

“I want it so bad, but I don’t want it”

I don’t want anyone to disrespect the self because I think they are hot. I value peace over sex and believe people were made for things greater.

Workplace sexual-harassment, or any dating in the workplace, is just a euphemism for work-cest.

I agree when women even tho I'm one my self but when they look like they want it giving guys looks the minuete they approach they go crying saying harassment this is why me as a young women if I wanna look a sertant way an attract male attention i will from a women's prospective I don't see why other women do that then go away upset about it it don't upset me if a guy looks at me or I look at a guy in a sertant way tbf don't phase me

I'm still singleam 24 years old n a student of university.i need a true love.i love distance relationship coz that relationship is so purest n so romantic. Just one love for life timeplz if anyone interested then add me..first know me then think about future

I wish someone would let me know when they are sexually harassing me, then I might do something about it.
Alas no one has harassed me for sex in years.
Please, someone, pref. fem.

I just can't wrap my head around this
whole 'being a victim' thing.

Generally, if a woman speaks,
or acts, toward me, in an inappropriate sexual
manner...

I tend to grade it, for originality and context.

sexual harassment is a mental disorder Or criminal act it’s no different than getting mugged by strangers... a stranger can be mental or act as picking on weak victims.

In my opinion I think girls who wear too Short clothes and looking sexy and beautiful in public are more likely attracts the rapist. The Rapist will pick on the weak one so they can get away without knowing..

Yup, sorted. It is either burkas or naked. No in between

I was getting ready for work today, black bra beneath a low shoulder top. Then I reconsidered, because my shoulders were suggestively exposed.
So I changed, to avoid unprofessionalism.
When I went to work, one of my team had on the most sexiest crop top, bra straps exposed.
I thought, I am seriously repressed.


"Be a lady they said. Your skirt is too short. Your shirt is too low. Your pants are too tight. Don’t show so much skin. Don’t show your thighs. Don’t show your breasts. Don’t show your midriff. Don’t show your cleavage. Don’t show your underwear. Don’t show your shoulders. Cover up. Leave something to the imagination. Dress modestly. Don’t be a temptress. Men can’t control themselves.

Men have needs. You look frumpy. Loosen up. Show some skin. Look sexy. Look hot. Don’t be so provocative. You’re asking for it. Wear black. Wear heels. You’re too dressed up. You’re too dressed down. Don’t wear those sweatpants; you look like you’ve let yourself go.

Be a lady they said. Don’t be too fat. Don’t be too thin. Don’t be too large. Don’t be too small. Eat up. Slim down. Stop eating so much. Don’t eat too fast. Order a salad. Don’t eat carbs. Skip dessert. You need to lose weight. Fit into that dress. Go on a diet. Watch what you eat. Eat celery. Chew gum. Drink lots of water. You have to fit into those jeans. God, you look like a skeleton. Why don’t you just eat? You look emaciated. You look sick. Eat a burger. Men like women with some meat on their bones. Be small. Be light. Be little. Be petite. Be feminine. Be a size zero. Be a double zero. Be nothing. Be less than nothing.

Be a lady they said. Remove your body hair. Shave your legs. Shave your armpits. Shave your bikini line. Wax your face. Wax your arms. Wax your eyebrows. Get rid of your mustache. Bleach this. Bleach that. Lighten your skin. Tan your skin. Eradicate your scars. Cover your stretch marks. Tighten your abs. Plump your lips. Botox your wrinkles. Lift your face. Tuck your tummy. Thin your thighs. Tone your calves. Perk up your boobs. Look natural. Be yourself. Be genuine. Be confident. You’re trying too hard. You look overdone. Men don’t like girls who try too hard.

Be a lady they said. Wear makeup. Prime your face. Conceal your blemishes. Contour your nose. Highlight your cheekbones. Line your lids. Fill in your brows. Lengthen your lashes. Color your lips. Powder, blush, bronze, highlight. Your hair is too short. Your hair is too long. Your ends are split. Highlight your hair. Your roots are showing. Dye your hair. Not blue, that looks unnatural. You’re going grey. You look so old. Look young. Look youthful. Look ageless. Don’t get old. Women don’t get old. Old is ugly. Men don’t like ugly.

Be a lady they said. Save yourself. Be pure. Be virginal. Don’t talk about sex. Don’t flirt. Don’t be a skank. Don’t be a whore. Don’t sleep around. Don’t lose your dignity. Don’t have sex with too many men. Don’t give yourself away. Men don’t like sluts. Don’t be a prude. Don’t be so up tight. Have a little fun. Smile more. Pleasure men. Be experienced. Be sexual. Be innocent. Be dirty. Be virginal. Be sexy. Be the cool girl. Don’t be like the other girls.

Be a lady they said. Don’t talk too loud. Don’t talk too much. Don’t take up space. Don’t sit like that. Don’t stand like that. Don’t be intimidating. Why are you so miserable? Don’t be a *****. Don’t be so bossy. Don’t be assertive. Don’t overact. Don’t be so emotional. Don’t cry. Don’t yell. Don’t swear. Be passive. Be obedient. Endure the pain. Be pleasing. Don’t complain. Let him down easy. Boost his ego. Make him fall for you. Men want what they can’t have. Don’t give yourself away. Make him work for it. Men love the chase. Fold his clothes. Cook his dinner. Keep him happy. That’s a woman’s job. You’ll make a good wife some day. Take his last name. You hyphenated your name? Crazy feminist. Give him children. You don’t want children? You will some day. You’ll change your mind.

Be a lady they said. Don’t get raped. Protect yourself. Don’t drink too much. Don’t walk alone. Don’t go out too late. Don’t dress like that. Don’t show too much. Don’t get drunk. Don’t leave your drink. Have a buddy. Walk where it is well lit. Stay in the safe neighborhoods. Tell someone where you’re going. Bring pepper spray. Buy a rape whistle. Hold your keys like a weapon. Take a self-defense course. Check your trunk. Lock your doors. Don’t go out alone. Don’t make eye contact. Don’t bat your eyelashes. Don’t look easy. Don’t attract attention. Don’t work late. Don’t crack dirty jokes. Don’t smile at strangers. Don’t go out at night. Don’t trust anyone. Don’t say yes. Don’t say no.

Just “be a lady” they said."

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And this is what other women say to each other ffs.

In summer time when it's hot, my eyeballs are continuously being harassed by beautiful images of females, showing lots of skin, and skimpy swim wear, and curves and cleavage, AND I LIKE IT.
I want full harassment, chase me and harass me even more thoroughly.
Please.

I disagree. Women get raped no matter what they wear.

50 to 60 years ago sexual harassment was common place and women dressed more conservatively then today's fashion.

There's nothing wrong with them wearing what they want.
that being said, us men need to watch our emotion of desire so that it doesn't manifest into a problem.
meaning, observe your behaviours around them when you feel aroused etc.
you might find that you're uncontrollable looking too much. when you notice that, keep noticing the urge as well.
nothing wrong with looking. it's a natural thing. but obsessively looking every time is a sign of too much attachment to your emotion of desire

ok

Women aren't necessarily dressing sexy for you. They're most likely doing it for themselves. And if they're trying to attract a partner, and it's not you, don't be bitter. Since this is a dating website, I assume most of us are single, and knowing that the men who think in this outdated, misogynistic way are perpetually single DOES NOT SURPRISE ME. There are tons of great arguments being made here, i.e. "She's not dressing like a slut, you're thinking like a rapist." and you reply with, "It's human nature to stare and comment (and possibly do more)!"

Wow, way to tell on yourself like that. Please don't represent yourself in court.