they always leave me
they think i have money. when i dont give, they leave.

That's not a fulfilling or real relationship. Perhaps, if you didn't post pics of what appears to be jewelry, they wouldn't have that belief.

So why do you go with guys that are only there because they think you have money? Do you give them that impression and then panic, because you realise why they're actually there? Personally, I'd rather be single and happy, than with someone that is only there because of what they could get off me. Realise your worth and tell yourself you deserve better, instead of being used. I wish you all the best, ok?

That sort of thing happens when you don't have healthy self-esteem and self-love, but instead feel you're not worthy, not deserving, not good enough.
Change that and your life will change, including your love life.

Beats me.
I've never met you so don't know how you personally can keep a relationship.

But in general you need to communicate with your partner and work on it together, you can't do it alone.


Okay.
Are they giving you any reasons?
Are they all leaving you about the same time?
Or are we talking about one left you after a week, another left you after 16 years, another left you on read in your DM's overnight?


How do you know what they're thinking? Is that what they're telling you or just what you fear?
Based on all the information you've provided in the OP for all I know we're talking about a Lena Hyena encountering muggers situation.

Find someone with more money

Ditch the Rolls Royce and the Designer outfits. Drive a rusted out Ford and dress like a bag-lady. Then marry the first guy that winks at you.

You are correct

Love is beyond money or material things. Anyone who's not ready to be with you for you, does not deserve you. Periodt

You cannot expect a guy to keep paying all the time when regularly dating him. Do you offer to pay some times, maybe only to pay your half, guys don't have a magic money tree at home. Seems to me you could be going out all the time and expecting too much from guys, making you high maintenance, maybe that's why they leave you.

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Have you tried keeping them tethered
in the basement?

Tell 'them' in future that you only just make ends meet financially; don't splash the cash; and find out what they really want from a relationship.
Don't say your real job, say you have a lower paying one.
Dress down a little; schemers look for well dressed women.
Scare off gold diggers early so you don't waste time.
If anyone new wants money, dump them immediately.
What are you attracted to ? Pretty boy scammers ? Average Joe ?

I've just discovered neon gaffer tape, it'll definitely help.

And no doubt so much nicer than the plain stuff .

sure it'll glow in the dark if you decide on the basement

Seems we have the idea for Stephen King's next novel.

This can be read two ways.
The first way (superficial money based relationships) is expounded upon by the comments but there is another view...

There are situations where a man might expect a woman to be able to support herself. Yes, there are men who don't mind providing for a woman but in this day and age lots of men expect a woman to be self-sufficient and able to contribute to the relationship equally.

If you are the 'take all' type, many will drop you.
Using sex as a bartering agent doesn't work for long.
Its doubtful you want a "kept Man" but its equally likely no man wants a "kept Woman"
Many people (men & women) think a relationship means a predilection to marriage responsibilities but a relationship, even a marriage, is based more on equality.
Both giving and taking equally.
If you are willing to 'take' but unwilling to 'give', most men will drop you.

Well I'm glad to hear they leave you. Do you really want someone like that in your life? Someone who doesn't love you? Good riddance, move on.

I agree. It's the same for men who post their income on dating sites and then complain that the only women they're meeting are those who are after their money. Well... duh!