Topic: Rate me lol
Casey's photo
Mon 03/22/21 08:39 AM
Just another dude looking for some casual interaction. How’s it look?

no photo
Mon 03/22/21 10:01 AM
Pics are fine. The about me is not going to get you anywhere. Any grown up woman will likely be turned off by your cheesy come on. On the other hand, scammers, prostitutes and fakes will flock to you.

Tell a bit about yourself and the type of woman you seek, Do it with a bit of wit and charm (such as you possess) and have patience.


Good luck!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 03/22/21 01:14 PM
lol

Not sure why you want that for a rating, but it's what you asked for. Whatever makes one happy :)

Poetrywriter's photo
Mon 03/22/21 06:52 PM
Hmmmmm! Marital status = separated? Sounds like you are still married. Not a good quality to have on a dating site where you are looking for an intimate encounter. That translates to cheating on the spouse.

Casey's photo
Tue 03/23/21 03:07 AM

Hmmmmm! Marital status = separated? Sounds like you are still married. Not a good quality to have on a dating site where you are looking for an intimate encounter. That translates to cheating on the spouse.


Lol, not at all, but you do you sir. Separated means many things and while it does mean I’m still married it doesn’t at all indicate that I’m cheating. That’s severely antiquated thinking. But thanks for your opinion.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Tue 03/23/21 04:01 AM


Hmmmmm! Marital status = separated? Sounds like you are still married. Not a good quality to have on a dating site where you are looking for an intimate encounter. That translates to cheating on the spouse.


Lol, not at all, but you do you sir. Separated means many things and while it does mean I’m still married it doesn’t at all indicate that I’m cheating. That’s severely antiquated thinking. But thanks for your opinion.



Yup. I am separated for almost 5 years now and I would rather throw meself in front of a train, than going back to my ex wife. It just takes that long in Ireland, you have to wait 5 years for your divorce papers grumble Maybe they believe in some divine intervention or something like that whoa But to me, separated means "No way back" and I am sure, I am not the only one who thinks like that.

Anyways, good luck to you :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 03/23/21 06:27 AM



Hmmmmm! Marital status = separated? Sounds like you are still married. Not a good quality to have on a dating site where you are looking for an intimate encounter. That translates to cheating on the spouse.


Lol, not at all, but you do you sir. Separated means many things and while it does mean I’m still married it doesn’t at all indicate that I’m cheating. That’s severely antiquated thinking. But thanks for your opinion.



Yup. I am separated for almost 5 years now and I would rather throw meself in front of a train, than going back to my ex wife. It just takes that long in Ireland, you have to wait 5 years for your divorce papers grumble Maybe they believe in some divine intervention or something like that whoa But to me, separated means "No way back" and I am sure, I am not the only one who thinks like that.

Anyways, good luck to you :thumbsup:

Not necessarily 'no way back'. Some don't intend to ever get divorced, I believe because of financial consequences. And it is basically invented to give the couple the chance to maybe reconcile.
And it could affect someone if the person of interest doesn't intend to ever get legally divorced. I'm not getting involved with someone who's still married to another woman.

When I first got here I chose the option 'separated' is I thought it meant "split up after relationship without marriage", which was applicable to me. Only in the forums I found out it meant something else, based on US law. Then I changed it to divorced even though I was never married to my last long term partner.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 03/23/21 06:28 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 03/23/21 06:29 AM


Hmmmmm! Marital status = separated? Sounds like you are still married. Not a good quality to have on a dating site where you are looking for an intimate encounter. That translates to cheating on the spouse.


Lol, not at all, but you do you sir. Separated means many things and while it does mean I’m still married it doesn’t at all indicate that I’m cheating. That’s severely antiquated thinking. But thanks for your opinion.

Lol, if it means many things, maybe clarify what it means in your situation. Lol.
Might help the result you're going to get.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Tue 03/23/21 08:36 AM




Hmmmmm! Marital status = separated? Sounds like you are still married. Not a good quality to have on a dating site where you are looking for an intimate encounter. That translates to cheating on the spouse.


Lol, not at all, but you do you sir. Separated means many things and while it does mean I’m still married it doesn’t at all indicate that I’m cheating. That’s severely antiquated thinking. But thanks for your opinion.



Yup. I am separated for almost 5 years now and I would rather throw meself in front of a train, than going back to my ex wife. It just takes that long in Ireland, you have to wait 5 years for your divorce papers grumble Maybe they believe in some divine intervention or something like that whoa But to me, separated means "No way back" and I am sure, I am not the only one who thinks like that.

Anyways, good luck to you :thumbsup:

Not necessarily 'no way back'. Some don't intend to ever get divorced, I believe because of financial consequences. And it is basically invented to give the couple the chance to maybe reconcile.
And it could affect someone if the person of interest doesn't intend to ever get legally divorced. I'm not getting involved with someone who's still married to another woman.

When I first got here I chose the option 'separated' is I thought it meant "split up after relationship without marriage", which was applicable to me. Only in the forums I found out it meant something else, based on US law. Then I changed it to divorced even though I was never married to my last long term partner.




Seems, the legislation is a bit complicated. You get a so called 'Judicial Separation' after 3 years, and terms and conditions usually get copied into the Divorce certificate. And it is a legal binding document already.

But what I would appreciate, some fast track divorce for couples who agree, that there is no way back. Without that insanely long waiting period.

no photo
Tue 03/23/21 10:18 AM
This thread needs more lolz

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 03/23/21 03:05 PM





Hmmmmm! Marital status = separated? Sounds like you are still married. Not a good quality to have on a dating site where you are looking for an intimate encounter. That translates to cheating on the spouse.


Lol, not at all, but you do you sir. Separated means many things and while it does mean I’m still married it doesn’t at all indicate that I’m cheating. That’s severely antiquated thinking. But thanks for your opinion.



Yup. I am separated for almost 5 years now and I would rather throw meself in front of a train, than going back to my ex wife. It just takes that long in Ireland, you have to wait 5 years for your divorce papers grumble Maybe they believe in some divine intervention or something like that whoa But to me, separated means "No way back" and I am sure, I am not the only one who thinks like that.

Anyways, good luck to you :thumbsup:

Not necessarily 'no way back'. Some don't intend to ever get divorced, I believe because of financial consequences. And it is basically invented to give the couple the chance to maybe reconcile.
And it could affect someone if the person of interest doesn't intend to ever get legally divorced. I'm not getting involved with someone who's still married to another woman.

When I first got here I chose the option 'separated' is I thought it meant "split up after relationship without marriage", which was applicable to me. Only in the forums I found out it meant something else, based on US law. Then I changed it to divorced even though I was never married to my last long term partner.




Seems, the legislation is a bit complicated. You get a so called 'Judicial Separation' after 3 years, and terms and conditions usually get copied into the Divorce certificate. And it is a legal binding document already.

But what I would appreciate, some fast track divorce for couples who agree, that there is no way back. Without that insanely long waiting period.

Yes, it should be possible to be done faster. Five years is certainly ridiculously long.
There had planned to speed it up over here, not sure if they did or not in the end. When my husband and I divorced we had one lawyer together as we had no disagreements whatsoever. Saved us lawyer fees.
Silly thing is, it then needs to go to a judge who needs to okay it, and that's it. Took over a year. Somewhere from a year to a year and a half. I felt that was long, I mean, it only takes a judge to okay it. How much work is that? 30 seconds, because I doubt they even read it, hihi.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 03/23/21 03:06 PM

This thread needs more lolz

Lol, doesn't it, lol!