(((((((((Pinky)))))))))))

sounds to me like you need to come up with a plan to move out. It's not easy, I know that, but it can be doable.

Evenin' Chica's



Pinky, sorry your mom is givin ya such a hard time..maybe y'all can talk and work it out??




It's been snowin here all day.. not much on the ground, but it's still fallin'

that is why i am working so hard. to be economic solvent to leave and be on my own with nicole..i think it is a good plan but dont know how much longer i can handle this..

(((((((Pinky)))))))

ok hon... I know that having a plan and working towards it is excellent advice.. AND an ABSOLUTE MUST! In the meantime though, I realise you also need something to hold onto while trudging forward.

Is there a family member, family friend or clergy/church member that you can talk too? Would they be willing to sit down with you & your mom, and be a mediator. Someone who can be the "translator"? Let this person help in gettign thru to your mom how you are feeling.. and that you are working hard to make a place in this world for you & Nicole.. and that you just need yoru mother's help a little bit more.

If this is not an option.. then do you know of anyone that you & Nicole can stay with while you continue to work/save for your own place? Maybe contact women's resources, churches, outreach organizations.. even orgs for unwed mothers. Even if they cannot help you directly, they may be able to point you in the right direction.. or at the very least introduce you to a support group.

Please know I have asked God to Light the way for you in resolving this.... and have asked the Angels of Stregnth, Peace, Clarity, Understanding and Abundance to assist you.

THANK U SO SO MUCH..

THE THING IS THAT HERE I DONT KNOW MUCH, I JUST MOVE HERE WIHT NICOLE LIKE A MONTH AGO, CUZ WE WERE LIVING IN MEXICO CITY, AND MY FAMILY MOVED HERE LIKE A YEAR BEFORE WE ARRIVED..WE STAYED IN MEXICO CUZ I WAS FINISHING MY BEACHLOR DGREE..
NOW I AM HERE,IN SINALOA, AND DONT KNOW ANYONE..CUZ I AM NEW TO THE CITY THE ONLY THING I HAVE IS GOD, WICH I AM PRAYING A LOT LATELY NOT TO LEAVE CUZ I THINK THIS MORE THAN I CAN HANDLE
AND THANK U FOR PRAYING, CUZ I DONT KNOW HOW MUCH I CAN TAKE..

Breathe in, breathe out ..... just take a few to relax and get your focus hon.

It will be okay. RELAX.

K?

keeping you in my prayers darlin...all will be ok

OK..I AM ..REALX...YES THAT IS SOMETHING THAT I CAN DO WHILE I AM HERE AT WORK..AND TRYING HARD NOT TO CRY..
AND THANKS FOR HEARING ME ..IT IS NICE TO KNOW THAT THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT AT LEAST READS U IN TIMES LIKES THIS

that's why it's nice to have girlfriends hon

That's what we chica's do, Pinky!!!!

YA YA

THANK GIRLS..
CUZ AS MUCH AS I KNOW THAT WHAT DOESNT KILL U MAKES U STRONGER..
I AM NOT REALLY BELIVING IT RIGHT NOW
AND THANK GOD..THAT SOMEHOW I FIND THIS WEB PAGE AND FIND U ALL.

one thing about my sisters here is we are all for one and one for all. we are always here for a shoulder to lean on, someone to cry with and someone to laugh with...i love them all!!

its what the sisterhood is all about Pinky.....no need for thanks, k?

hey ladies, i would like to be considered as a new member..seems like a great way to make new friends, because you can never have enough of those :)
Becca

I AM HERE IN MY ROOM AFTER CRYING MY SELF OUT IN THE CAR,
BUT SOMEHOW FIND PEACE AND QUIET AS I HEAR MY LITTLE GIRLS BREATH WHEN SHE SLEEPS SO CALMLY IN HER BED
AFTER LEAVING WORK..I WENT BACK HOME ..SOME ONE TOLD ME FOCUS IN THE FUTURE AND U R GOING TO MAKE IT THRUE..I AM JUST HOPING
I AM ..

Exactly. Weeping endures for a night, but JOY comes in the morning ... keep your eyes ahead honey

awwww .. sounds like a winner to me