Topic: would you..
sandra0607
Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 250 |
date someone that was overweight??
im working really hard at losing weight (already lost 30 pounds!) but it seems like i get alot of views and no one even e-mails/instant messages me my guess is maybe my weight?
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armbender Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 177 |
if someone was nice id still date her despite her weight :) i dated someone who was overweight so i have no problem
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joshyfox Joined Fri 08/18/06 Posts: 4272 |
I'm losing weight too, but I'm still in the mindset that if people can't love someone is overweight, there's just no hope for me.
Oh, and I would, but like everyone else, I'd have to get to know them first.
Edited by joshyfox on Sun 06/29/08 07:39 PM
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bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163 |
i dont think it has anything to do with weight. you dont really have much up on your profile. try talking about yourself and see if that helps. good luck n your kids are adorable
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sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411 |
You are a beautiful young woman. I think it's just dating sites in general.
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chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8619 |
It depends. I would have to get to know the person first. My views may change. I just love hugging a teddy bear!
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angle22 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 54 |
I DONT REALLY THINK WEIGHT MATTERS IT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THE PERSON. I KNOW THAT I AM STRUGGLING TO LOSE WEIGHT AFTER HAVING MY TWINS AN I HAVE THE SAME ISSUE BUT AS LONG AS YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOUR SELF THATS ALL THAT SHOULD REALLY MATTER AT THE END OF THE DAY.
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kitcat87 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 290 |
i dated someone who was heavier once and i use to be over weight as well u keep working at it and just remember being happy with yourself is whats important if a guy won't date you b/c of your weight he doesn't know what he's missing out on...
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thewalrusx
Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 62 |
Of course, but as a general rule people only date others they find attractive, so anyone thats unattractively overweight is gonna have problems finding others.
But thats not what's important, what's important is what you think of yourself, and what is healthy for you. Go for the body that you want. If you want to lose weight for yourself more power too you, but don't let others tel you what is beautiful and what is not
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68chevy Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 5949 |
Beauty is on the inside, the person we are at our soul, not the person we see on the outside, so yes I have and would.
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MisKim323
Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14564 |
If it's about your weight Sweety, they just aren't worth the bother. You just keep smiling and congrats to you on the 30....took me 18 months...lost 140...they still pass me by...figure it's cause I'm not Barbie...don't want to be her...too much trouble....lol
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HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037 |
You're just great, sweets. There are a lot of 4's looking for a 10, physically.
Just be who you are, or else you will find yourself in a world of misery. |
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eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 27916 |
Check out the pics on my profile......I am overweight and I am marrying a teddybear, as chickayoshi would describe him.
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sandra0607
Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 250 |
thanks guys--oh and i updated my profile more i forot i took everything out before!
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Random_Stranger
Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2414 |
I am 5'9" 185lbs Lg Top Lg Bottom. For relationship, I seek no one larger than I, but if I were in love and she was to grow bigger, than so be it.
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msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 16730 |
QUOTE: I am 5'9" 185lbs Lg Top Lg Bottom. For relationship, I seek no one larger than I, but if I were in love and she was to grow bigger, than so be it. Oh darn guess that means I'm out
Bwhahahahahaha SOO kidding
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Random_Stranger
Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2414 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: I am 5'9" 185lbs Lg Top Lg Bottom. For relationship, I seek no one larger than I, but if I were in love and she was to grow bigger, than so be it. Oh darn guess that means I'm out
Nah you look good, you in like flint Bwhahahahahaha SOO kidding
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msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 16730 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I am 5'9" 185lbs Lg Top Lg Bottom. For relationship, I seek no one larger than I, but if I were in love and she was to grow bigger, than so be it. Oh darn guess that means I'm out
Nah you look good, you in like flint Bwhahahahahaha SOO kidding
Did you see the nickname I gave you earlier? |
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Rzrback Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 368 |
Well, I am 6'1" 220 lbs., so I wouldnt have a problem with a "healthy" woman.
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mlafolle Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 154 |
maybe im just an ass but i wouldnt want to go out with someone that is over weight. i work out four to five days a week so that i have the body i want. Maybe its my misconception but i believe that if i went out with a larger person that our life styles would conflict. i love to be out side riding my bike, swimming, boating, and what not and i dont see someone that is over weight being able to keeps up.
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