Topic: Have you ever forgiven someone?
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89693 |
Have you ever forgiven someone for cheating on you and took them back? Did they do it again, or was everything 'okay'?
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MisKim323
Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14564 |
Yes, I did....and yes He did...for 15 years.
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rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645 |
One should NEVER take anyone back who has cheated,becuase once,will never be enoufgh,becuase chances are GOOD they will cheat over again!
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voxsteven
Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 1813 |
I never did that.
Forgiveness is really difficult. I work on it a lot. |
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merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2816 |
Once a cheater-Always a cheater
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LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4963 |
QUOTE: Have you ever forgiven someone for cheating on you and took them back? Did they do it again, or was everything 'okay'?
Nope..You cheat..you're gone. |
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s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29311 |
fortunately, i have not been put in that position...
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89693 |
Very interesting
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LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32257 |
I did that once, and it was a big mistake. Of course, everyone I've been involved with was a big mistake, so it's hard to differentiate based on just one thing anymore.
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plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042 |
I forgave him for the sake of my children but I did not take him back.
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RJR1 Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 548 |
Nope, will not do that. 2 reasons: can't trust them anymore and don't want to sleep with whoever they've been with.
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Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23319 |
QUOTE: Have you ever forgiven someone for cheating on you and took them back? Did they do it again, or was everything 'okay'?
Yes I did and yes they did it again. |
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chriswantstocuddle Joined Thu 04/03/08 Posts: 599 |
QUOTE: Have you ever forgiven someone for cheating on you and took them back? Did they do it again, or was everything 'okay'?
yes i did and yes she did... thats why i dont forgive people for that crud anymore |
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bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379 |
Yes I did and yes he did. I don't like cheaters
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OpenWounds Joined Wed 08/06/08 Posts: 335 |
Never had and never will. My fragile self-esteem doesn't take this sort of thing well
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ddn122
Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855 |
forgave..but wouldn't take them back
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mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3524 |
Yes I did and he did it again and again, that is why I say once a cheater always a cheater
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MotherTucker43 Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 800 |
I have forgiven my ex-husband for cheating while we were married and gave him another chance. What was I thinking?
He just continued on with his cheating ways. Nothing like putting a damper on my self esteem. But his adultry did get me 18 months of alimony.
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89693 |
QUOTE: I have forgiven my ex-husband for cheating while we were married and gave him another chance. What was I thinking? He just continued on with his cheating ways. Nothing like putting a damper on my self esteem. But his adultry did get me 18 months of alimony.
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MotherTucker43 Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 800 |
Aw. Thank you. Honestly, couldn't be happier with him out of my life.
Now it's onto bigger better men..er..things.
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Have you ever forgiven someone for cheating on you and took them back?
Very interesting
He just continued on with his cheating ways.
Nothing like putting a damper on my self esteem. But his adultry did get me 18 months of alimony.
Now it's onto bigger better men..er..things.