i found out a few days ago my girlfriend/fiance was seeing another guy behind my back so we're over. its hard to find honest girls these days...

welcome to The womens world!!!!! we cant find honest guys if it bit us in the A$$

I'm so sorry. Just remember we all aren't like that.

It sucks, and it is hard, but rest asure there is a light at the end. Better to find out know before marriage.

Turn around and I'll give you a good chomp.

yeah i am glad i found out before anything really serious happened. it sucks to be single again.

Sorry to hear that, but...remember all women are not like that.

And actually she did you a favor just think if you had actually married her and then found out!!

Give it some time and you will see that it is best it happen now then later.

easy there cowboy>>>>Where are all the good honest people??? why does it seem so difficult to find these people... why do we all have to deal with sh!t and put our hearts out there just to be trampled

lol a good chomp? i hope you referring to some food there...

<-----right here!

sucks to be you...

Sum id quod sum et id totum est quod sum.

Go read my profile and see how honest it is......I'm being truthful......

BUT......over 50 "lookers" in the last 30 days......and not even a nibble......

Maybe I shouldn't be so honest after all!!!

Then someone would half way know me before passing judgement just because of one word.

It SEEMS so hard to find those people, because it IS hard.

The problem is this. In the never ending search to find someone honest ( genuine, respectful, kind, 'insert your favorite here' ) people have a tendency to overlook what is right in front of them.

Dude, whats up, you post here that you haven't had a girl friend in 8 yrs, and earlier in the same thread about other women you tried to meet????????
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/167643?page=2

I will honestly say your main image needs to be one where I can see the person. I've mailed with you and have NO idea what you look like. Makes it tough. Just saying....

I'm so sorry babe. If it helps, it's hard to find honest anyone these days. Guys, in my experience, just want one thing and will say anything to get it.

Sometimes being single makes me .

I still believe in people and love and loyalty. And I have been dating so long it seems almost impossible to sustain this kinda length.

So do not ever let one person have the power over you to make you become cynical.

Okay, if they hurt you, you can let them have that power for about 20 days TOPS. That is only so you can be sad and grieve for the loss... without that time or sadness it might make you inhuman and callous. But that is all they should get!!! (and only if you truly did care about them, if you didnt..no sweat, right?)

uh i think he is busted