To every guy that regrets hurting or losing her.

To every guy who knows which girl he wants.

To every guy that would never think of cheating.

To every guy that does not lie to and hide things from her!

To every guy that's said, "Sex can wait."

To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful." (instead of Daamn ur hot!)

To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town (or across the state) to see her.

To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick.

To every guy who has given her flowers just because.

To every guy that said he would die for her.

To every guy that really would.

To every guy that did what she wanted to do.

To every guy that cried in front of her.

To every guy that she cried in front of.

To every guy that holds hands with her.

To every guy that kisses her with meaning.

To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.

To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.

To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.

To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.

To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.

To every guy that would give his seat up.

To every guy that just wants to cuddle.

To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.

To every guy who told his secrets to her.

To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.

To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.

To every guy that believed in her dreams.

To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.

To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.

To every guy that walked her to her car.

To every guy that wasn't just trying to get laid.

To every guy that gave his heart.

***To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her. ****!!

TO EVERY GUY WHO MESSED UP AND DIDNT EVEN KNOW IT BUT NEVER GOT THAT 2ND CHANCE TO PROVE HE REALLY IS WHO YOU THOUGHT HE WAS!!!

TO EVERY GUY THAT KNOWS EXACTLY WHO HE WANTS TO BE WITH...BUT....


This is one bulletin for you...

Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore... And because of this, there are not many left out there...

If you are a nice guy repost this with "Nice guys finish last."

If you are a girl that thinks every guy should try to accomplish even a few of these repost this with: "To the nice guys left

nice guys finish dead last...

Nice guys finish last. Or -in MY case- they don't even place.

Most "nice guys" arnt very nice at all

If your a nice guy and your left, marry me...

There are guys who say "sex can wait" even if you don't want to.

That's not very nice!

You guys are probably right ,women tend to go for the jerks ...

No, I want a nice guy.... there are just too many nice guys threads and we are burned out. Not at all your fault.

It's more the word "nice" itself.

Humm I have heard so many guys say they do all of these yeah right.

But then I'm just looking for a guy that does half of these and can still be a Man.

NOT TRUE! Nice guys do finish first. I got smart and waited for a nice guy and according to him treated him like a King. Together his career flourished, we owned a home, enjoyed our families, and had friends everywhere we went.
Even my Ex who at times I could have wrung his neck and said I deserved to trash his life told my son later that I treated him fairly.

If you have had a series of women get over on you the common denominator is your standards, your choices. or how you conduct your self. I can name a hundred guys with a hundred strikes against them and because they;
Raised their Standards...
Made better CHOICES...
And cleaned up THEIR acts still wound up with nice relationships, partners, and even wives. Guys with real serious set backs in life.
Short course if you want to date someone that will like you and treat you well;
Get out of bars, expect a lady to act like a lady, and don't be and ATM with hair. Don't stack the deck against yourself dateing people you know are loosers and expect nice women to be associated with them or follow behind them. Get over trying to rescue anybody. Care about your reputation and make it proceed you with honor. That doesn't mean being a wimp or a bully.
Ask questions, check out what you are told, take your time. If it sounds too good to be true it isn't. History repeats itself avoid being the next mistake or victim. If someone can not find one single person who likes them there is a REASON. Look for someone you actually LIKE. Look for someone you at least have a few things in common with. Getting sex does not mean she likes you or will ever love you.
If your act is lame you know it so clean it up. You can't blame nice, responsible, considerate women for heeding your big sign on your forhead that says I REALLY DON'T HAVE TO ACCOMODATE THE BASICS TO DATE YOU. It is and insult and they are being generous to even bother telling you no.

Simple enough...nice guys really do not exist, there are respectful assertive guys...then there are respectful unassertive guys (these are the ones that say "nice guys finish last"). Yea, you will finish last, why? Because you aren't trying to finish at any other place, why? I don't know, maybe they like the "nice guys finish last" motto so much they live accordingly with it.

BAH!!! I actually HAVE done all those things, but I am still an ass*ole....lol

But........Fear when a guy finishes last does it not mean he is the last one that the girl keeps?

For if he does not end up with the girl wouldn't that be more of the guy was left in the cold instead?

Humm just pondering ohhhhhhhh noooooooo now we will have threads about guys being left in the cold I knew I should have keep those thoughts to myself.

People finish where they want to finish, the "nice guys finish last" motto always comes up in connection with a relationship *co-dependant*. The reason I say that is because why else are you going to hold on to *one* girl if you are not in some way, shape, or form dependant on them? The crap motto of "nice guys finish last" was created by someone who simply became lazy and didn't attempt to pursue anything further, therefore less assertive...and yes, nothing comes out of not trying. Many fish in the sea, stop focusing on one.

Fear your pic is astounding and it really should be mine. Envy... envy....

So true but see I knew you would say it better then I could. Looks like to me if the girl did not want the guy she is doing him a favor by leaving him same as for a guy leaving a girl. It is best they leave then keep taking from them and not really wanting to be with them.

What is not meant to be is best done away with then hanging on to someone that does not really want to be with them.

I don't intend to finish last!!!! There IS someone out there for me!!!

Where do I find one of these "nice guys"?????


Can I buy him at Walmart????

Big donkeys, small donkeys, all good to eat.

Word!

I adore nice guys. But there is a big difference between nice guys and pansies. I think some people who say nice guys finish last get that somewhat confused.