How ironic. :\

everyone just needs to get laid,period

I think this is a great pep talk. I needed it. I was married to my BFF. After the divorce I Discovered he has Liver Cancer. I tried to get back with him. I thought it was love. But it was more I felt sorry for him and I do love him as a friend but I realized I am not in love with him. After that i finally opened up to another guy who I thought he cared about me. Well I caught him cheating on me..
He now want us to friends. I said friends without benefits. He booked. I am so tired of of being stuck with bad guys.. I know there are good guys out there. I just keep attracking the bad ones.
I am taking a break in the dating scene... All I want is to find some good friends to hang out with. Maybe if I find a few good friends, I will learn to trust again and try the dating thing again..

could happen

What I meant was: "How ironic because maybe that's how we met in the first place." :\ :\

maybe u'll find someone that way friend 1st

you are too sweet!! gracias but will see

I am gun shy at this time

Yeah....get your freak on people.

Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next time cheer up people!!!

I totally agree. If you've noticed I've never ever posted a thread or a comment on Mingle about no decent men. I don't believe it.

I see good in almost everyone. It's just the natural thing for me to do.

And I've been hurt before. But we all have choices of whether to see good or bad in people. I choose the good .. you can almost always find good in people.

And even if you can't, just friggin move on. No reason to take a sour attitude to life. It's too short for that.

now theres sum positivity

Eh. I'm all about having fun. I lived a while being alone, and while it isn't bad, I also know that it is nice, very nice to be with someone. And, you are right Tina. You really never do know what will happen. You might get hurt again. But, you might not. Isn't it worth the risk? I think so.

Yeah....get your freak on people.

Eh. I'm all about having fun. I lived a while being alone, and while it isn't bad, I also know that it is nice, very nice to be with someone. And, you are right Tina. You really never do know what will happen. You might get hurt again. But, you might not. Isn't it worth the risk? I think so.

I tried but the he could not kepp up with me!!!

Just this morning (Friday 3 Oct 2008) a 21-year-old man I met more than a year ago on another site sent me an email soliciting a (repeat) session of physical affection. He's a very affectionate, industrious, handsome, non-drug-abusing fellow...

I know I'm not really his type, though we make good friends who communicate well. The reason I met him in the first place was because his girlfriend (who he truly loved) had broken up with him in a very cruel manner. I spent a good deal of time just talking to him about how bad the whole thing was for him.

I know lots of good (not "nice") men who are ready, willing, and able to give a woman their hearts. They end up talking to me, and sometimes more than talking.

What's up with that sh!t, anyway? I'm not cheating, or helping someone to cheat; I'm helping someone to cope with awful damage that was inflicted BECAUSE he opened his heart to someone else, and let himself love that person and be used by her. He's tough, smart, really good-looking, able to make a living, and available--and he's spending his Friday night asking me what I'm up to.

What is wrong with this picture...? yours in Chaos, Scarlett

That my mingle friend is the answer to it all. Well said.

Silly men.